Inviv_girl Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Is something I couldn't control! My ex asks them how am I doing and they were talking and my friends told him that how could him ruined my life and he said he is not responsible that my life is ruin?? Why did he say that???????
TaraMaiden Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 he broke up with you - but we do create our own drama. You have to ensure your life is NOT ruined. You control your life, not him. He broke up with you - he didn't cut your limbs off. Ask your friends to not talk to him about you, and to you about him. If they're your friends - they will respect that.
Author Inviv_girl Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 he broke up with you - but we do create our own drama. You have to ensure your life is NOT ruined. You control your life, not him. He broke up with you - he didn't cut your limbs off. Ask your friends to not talk to him about you, and to you about him. If they're your friends - they will respect that. Thank you for your responds Tara, I am a wreck after he dumped me but dont think my life is ruined completely.. I never ask him for any responsibility of anything, He left me, hurt me really bad- really bad!!! How could he said he is not responsible for what he did to me, I dont understand this.
TaraMaiden Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 He is to BLAME for what he did to you. He is not RESPONSIBLE for the level to which you have - or have not - moved on. That's your job to be responsible for. Not his.
Author Inviv_girl Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 He is to BLAME for what he did to you. He is not RESPONSIBLE for the level to which you have - or have not - moved on. That's your job to be responsible for. Not his. I am moving on with my life, as hard as it is but I look forward. The memory of him will remain but the feeling will fade. What he said that he is not responsible sounds like he is not not feel guilty at all for what he did to me. It hits me really hard!
TaraMaiden Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 He probably doesn't. Which just goes to show his true character. What a good thing you are no longer involved with him, eh....?
Author Inviv_girl Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 He get really mad when my friends said to him he never really loved me, he said he did love but his feelings change he dont even know why do you think that makes sense?
TaraMaiden Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 It doesn't matter any more. It's over, he's your ex-. You don't need to know what he thinks, or what he says. What you need to do is switch focus from him, to yourself.
flitzanu Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Is something I couldn't control! My ex asks them how am I doing and they were talking and my friends told him that how could him ruined my life and he said he is not responsible that my life is ruin?? Why did he say that??????? also why are your friends even talking to your ex? they don't need to be creating drama either.
mutant Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Is something I couldn't control! My ex asks them how am I doing and they were talking and my friends told him that how could him ruined my life and he said he is not responsible that my life is ruin?? Why did he say that??????? Tell your friends not to make you the subject of their discussions. If they are real friends they will respect that.
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