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JourneyLady Established Member

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The last woman who told me good luck received a nasty message because I don't need LUCK to find someone.

 

Saying good luck to someone is so extra

 

Uh-huh... And I'll bet she went and told all her friends how nasty you were and now they won't date you either, even if they liked your photo.

SmileFace Established Member

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:lmao::lmao::lmao:

So what am I supposed to do when someone responds back and say no thank you

 

 

"YES SHE WAS POLITE TO ME!! SHE WAS POLITE TO ME!!! LMAO

No, you move the f*ck on and get over it.

It doesn't matter if she was polite or a bitch - she still doesn't want you.

 

Why and how you get hooked on such trivial sh*t is beyond me.

 

:lmao:

ltjg45 Established Member

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The last woman who told me good luck received a nasty message because I don't need LUCK to find someone.

 

Saying good luck to someone is so extra

 

Sounds like you need more luck, not less of it.

 

Esp. with that ugly attitude of yours.

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JourneyLady Established Member

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I don't need common courtesy just delete my message if u r not interested, That will prevent me from saying something disrespectful

 

Well... If you need US to prevent you from saying something disrespectful, then it seems you need to grow some self-control!

 

MOST guys appreciate politeness and a note that we at least got their message. The fact that YOU are the one in one thousand that doesn't appreciate it... is frankly, YOUR problem.

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Star Gazer Established Member

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That's the difference between men and woman, a man will never respond to a woman who is not his type. why do woman do it? Oh I know, "YOU WERE BEING POLITE!!:laugh:

 

Never say never, dude. I have received the "Thanks, but no thanks" message too.

 

In all honesty, male or female, I think it's a pretty bizarre message to send. Match needs to find some different language for that message; "Thanks, but no thanks" is just such a harsh choice of words.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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:lmao::lmao::lmao:

No, you move the f*ck on and get over it.

It doesn't matter if she was polite or a bitch - she still doesn't want you.

 

Why and how you get hooked on such trivial sh*t is beyond me.

 

:lmao:

 

 

I guess it's just so much SILLY SH*T going on today when it comes to online dating.

Estate Established Member

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My point is I don't remember every girl I send messages to so when I get a message I am thinking it's someone who is interested but instead it's some POLITE RETARD saying thanks

 

Then why are you wasting your time replying to the with a mean responce?

She's not interested, her loss....

You're letting it ruin your whole day.

 

You'd complain too if she just ignored you so we can't win.

 

Spend your time on the girls who send you NICE replies and forget about these tools.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Then why are you wasting your time replying to the with a mean responce?

She's not interested, her loss....

You're letting it ruin your whole day.

 

You'd complain too if she just ignored you so we can't win.

 

Spend your time on the girls who send you NICE replies and forget about these tools.

 

 

How would I know if she ignored me if I send out 12 messages?

Estate Established Member

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How would I know if she ignored me if I send out 12 messages?

 

You're just digging a bigger hole for yourself here man.

What exactly are you pissed about? What issue are you pushing here? Some girl turned you down and was a bitch about it.... forget her... you actually want to date that girl???

 

Jeeez, there's a few days until the weekend... for god sake just chat to the girls who are replying nicely and set up a date for the weekend and stop being so bitter!

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PhillyDude Established Member

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You're just digging a bigger hole for yourself here man.

What exactly are you pissed about? What issue are you pushing here? Some girl turned you down and was a bitch about it.... forget her... you actually want to date that girl???

 

Jeeez, there's a few days until the weekend... for god sake just chat to the girls who are replying nicely and set up a date for the weekend and stop being so bitter!

 

 

I don't even have the mental energy to go online tonight, i think I will wait until tomorrow

ScienceGal Established Member

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My point is I don't remember every girl I send messages to so when I get a message I am thinking it's someone who is interested but instead it's some POLITE RETARD saying thanks

 

I think you should put this right on your OLD profile. That'll solve your problem.

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Philosopher Established Member

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While I can understand that thanks but no thanks messages are annoying, some women will think that this is politer than not responding. So really it is no worse than not getting a response. I've been for a while and have only once had a thanks but no thanks message which suggests that they are not that common anyway.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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While I can understand that thanks but no thanks messages are annoying, some women will think that this is politer than not responding. So really it is no worse than not getting a response. I've been for a while and have only once had a thanks but no thanks message which suggests that they are not that common anyway.

 

 

They don't need to respond back if they are not interested because I won't remember every girl I sent a message to

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Why are you bothering to even try to date at all? You clearly don't like women. All you ever do is complain about them.

 

(Btw, the plural of woman is women, with an "e", woman with an "a" is used to refer to an individual woman)

 

 

Are you flirting with me again? lol

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Treasa Established Member

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What should prevent you from saying something disrespectful is having emotional maturity and having manners... probably what is also preventing you from successfully dating someone

 

I cannot "like" this enough.

 

What you're basically saying is that you have absolutely no control over your actions. I assure you that no woman is going to want to be with you if that's the case.

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Janesays Established Member

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Philly, your Mother did a pretty horrible job raising you. I would have blamed your Father too, but my guess is he hit the road a long time ago.

 

I have a question. You seem to be well into adulthood now. How much longer before you finally become a man?

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CptObvious Established Member

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phillydude rustlin all dem jimmies up in this crapshack

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Philly, your Mother did a pretty horrible job raising you. I would have blamed your Father too, but my guess is he hit the road a long time ago.

 

I have a question. You seem to be well into adulthood now. How much longer before you finally become a man?

 

 

wanna go on a date with me?

Janesays Established Member

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wanna go on a date with me?

 

Sorry, I already slummed it in my youth.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Sorry, I already slummed it in my youth.

 

 

We can chill at my place and order some chinese food and watching some powerful movies

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I think that feature is put onto websites because it saves the website's liability. If someone starts sending another harassing emails or IMs and it goes on record that one party said "no" to the other, then it takes away from the website's responsibility in case of harm or crime. They're only as good as the information they get. It's like if you are on one of those websites and someone wants you to get into a check cashing scam or send them money : if you actually do it, it's not REALLY the fault of the website for putting you in contact with them and not REALLY the fault of the website if you communicate.

Janesays Established Member

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We can chill at my place and order some chinese food and watching some powerful movies

 

 

What do you drive?

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PhillyDude Established Member

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What do you drive?

 

 

I catch cabs honey.

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Soxfaninfl Established Member

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When I email girls online and they are not interested, they simply don't respond. I've never had one say "no thanks". I did exchanged one email with a girl, but she never responded back to my second email which I thought was odd. I guess she changed her mind about dating a divorced father.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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When I email girls online and they are not interested, they simply don't respond. I've never had one say "no thanks". I did exchanged one email with a girl, but she never responded back to my second email which I thought was odd. I guess she changed her mind about dating a divorced father.

 

 

when I get a THANKS for now on I will send a follow up email asking......."How do you feel about sucking... LOL

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