SprklingDiamond Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Ok I have a question for you all. This is my first post...so hello everyone! Ok here is the story. I was with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and we broke up in May. In July we got back together and have been together ever since. Things between us are a little different (and that is not necessarily a bad thing). When we broke up my boyfriend made some new friends. Now that we are back together I still have not met these friends. He goes out with them a lot and I am never invited. I dont want to always be included because they are his friend...not mine but it seems weird to me that I have never met them. I will hint to him that I would like to meet them but he always says "yeah you would like them" He never actually creates an opportunity for us to meet. Sometimes when he is going out with them I will ask him if I can tag along and he always says "well you know its just gonna be me and my friends tonight" or something along those lines. When he is with his friends and I try to call him he doesnt even answer his phone. Does anyone else think this is weird? What should I do? Do you think that his friends dont even know that he has a girlfriend? Am I being paranoid?
Queen B Posted September 8, 2004 Posted September 8, 2004 While I think every couple needs time apart and everyone needs alone time with their friends I think it is a bit strange that you've known this guy for a while and he won't introduce you to his friends. I'm thinking there are a few possibilities. 1. There are no friends and he's involved with someoen else or into something else... 2. He's afraid that his friends won't like you 3. He's afraid that they'd like you more than him... I'd suggest that instad of asking him to take you to meet them you offer to have them over to your place. Basically I think that if your'e in a serious relationship, it's only polite that he introduce you to the people he spends a lot of time with...it doesn't mean you have to spnd every living moment with them but it does mean that you will get to know him better.
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