fall guy Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I just love hearing this! Anyone else have to listen to how "It was just a joke," or "I just wanted to be friends." The list goes on and on. My favorite was, "I wanted to meet him to tell him he shouldn't be doing this because he was married." It reminds me of that Dateline NBC show, To Catch a Predator. Every one of those guys say the same things when they get caught as well. Just venting, sorry. I'm really pissed. My wife of 15 years was trying to meet a guy from the bar while I was at work and uses all of these excuses. Sucks... 3
will1988 Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I just love hearing this! Anyone else have to listen to how "It was just a joke," or "I just wanted to be friends." The list goes on and on. My favorite was, "I wanted to meet him to tell him he shouldn't be doing this because he was married." It reminds me of that Dateline NBC show, To Catch a Predator. Every one of those guys say the same things when they get caught as well. Just venting, sorry. I'm really pissed. My wife of 15 years was trying to meet a guy from the bar while I was at work and uses all of these excuses. Sucks... Yep, I know what you mean. I love excuses people can come up with when caught doing something wrong. Not saying this is wrong, but one time when I was in high school I caught my younger brother (junior high school for him) cross dressing. His excuse was he saw the ghost of our dead dog and felt like he needed to throw on some clothes, and the only thing available was my younger sister's clothing. That was honestly the lamest, yet most original excuse I've ever heard for anything. I mean I was young and picked on him for a while because of that. However, he doesn't do it anymore (to my knowledge) and I've become more accepting of alternative lifestyles... 5
Jonah Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I just love hearing this! Anyone else have to listen to how "It was just a joke," or "I just wanted to be friends." The list goes on and on. My favorite was, "I wanted to meet him to tell him he shouldn't be doing this because he was married." It reminds me of that Dateline NBC show, To Catch a Predator. Every one of those guys say the same things when they get caught as well. Just venting, sorry. I'm really pissed. My wife of 15 years was trying to meet a guy from the bar while I was at work and uses all of these excuses. Sucks... Forward it to everyone on her phone. If ah complains... Hey! It was just a joke! Ah but you love her too much! 1
Radu Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I just love hearing this! Anyone else have to listen to how "It was just a joke," or "I just wanted to be friends." The list goes on and on. My favorite was, "I wanted to meet him to tell him he shouldn't be doing this because he was married." It reminds me of that Dateline NBC show, To Catch a Predator. Every one of those guys say the same things when they get caught as well. Just venting, sorry. I'm really pissed. My wife of 15 years was trying to meet a guy from the bar while I was at work and uses all of these excuses. Sucks... Good thing you know it's all bull****, that's the first step, not drinking the Kool Aid. 1
Bryanp Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 How would your wife feels if the roles had been reversed and you said these things to her? It is understandable that you would be in shock. Hopefully you caught it in times. Just remember that no consequences to her actions equals no motivation to change. You may not be so lucky next time.
ver13 Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 I just love hearing this! Anyone else have to listen to how "It was just a joke," or "I just wanted to be friends." The list goes on and on. My favorite was, "I wanted to meet him to tell him he shouldn't be doing this because he was married." It reminds me of that Dateline NBC show, To Catch a Predator. Every one of those guys say the same things when they get caught as well. Just venting, sorry. I'm really pissed. My wife of 15 years was trying to meet a guy from the bar while I was at work and uses all of these excuses. Sucks... Thats cool just do what I did I started to text him back and asked him out for drinks. Then I invited all our friends for a night out (yes I did this) and I didn't tell her until we got to the bar that he was on the way. Never saw a look like that on her face in my life it was priceless. He did'nt show and she felt like shyte... Wish I had of played the Earth Wind and Fire song " After the Love is Gone" too...
venusianx13 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 I don't know how many times my ex-fiance played this card with me. "We're just casual friends" "I don't like her like that" "It was just a joke", and every single time, my intuition was right on target... And yes, it does suck, but at least you see it for what it is now.
jnel921 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 There is nothing funny about sexting, texting, messaging or whatever the digital world has enabled us with, with other people who is not our significant other. There are no excuses. Only guilt. It sounds like you may need to work on your relationship and determine if you want to stay with someone who is obviously on the prowl. I hope it works out for you. 1
Bryanp Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 What have been the consequences to her actions?
baRx Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 (edited) saw this online from a girl i was "talking to" to some guy: "oh i miss youuu... i miss waking up to you..." when confronted about it later: "it was just a joke! his ex gf was harassing him so we decided to use me as the bait to get rid of her" - then she ran out of the meeting place we set up claiming anxiety attacks. 3 years later, they're engaged. Edited February 27, 2013 by baRx
Cheatingrevenge Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 That is horrible. "It's just a joke" oh yeah, really? I like how playful you are with these girls on your phone.
SimonSerenade Posted March 19, 2013 Posted March 19, 2013 Man I got told all this BS when I found some hidden messages on my fiancé's phone that she passed down to me when I got her a better one, some of the stuff I read was just vile, couldn't believe it even came from her, she even went as far as to blame it on her friend, she always said she hates people who use drinking as an excuse when they cheat or whatever but she blamed it on drinking!, she just expected me to move on like nothing had happened, I just think if it was the other way around I'd be ****ed right now!, she'd hold on to that grudge for 10 years or something like that, she tried to tell me it all happened before we got together but these messages lasted for almost 2 months into the beginning of our relationship, those were tough times man, some things you just can't ever un see.
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