zanesfan Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I need a little advice on someone that I have been dating on and off for over a year. We are both 30-- but a lot of games are being played unfortunately. For instance, we recently started talking again after months of little to no contact and all was well.... until I spazzed out on him about something I saw on FB. After we talked about things and I calmed down he started playing his favorite mind game on me (ignoring me). I asked him was he upset with me and he responded no.. but he was tired of going back and forth with me. Now mind you I initiate contact about 40% of the time. So yesterday I asked him about his day, when he would be back into town, etc. Most of the responses were one word. Then I asked if he wanted to see me when he got home (my first time initiating that in forever).. it took him 6 hours to respond back to me. Now I know he is trying to seem busy but I knew he was not. So I sent him a text from one of my texting apps and he responded to this stranger in 5 minutes. Yet he wouldnt text me back. He basically told me in the past that he wanted me to not answer his calls right away, or dont always be available because its exciting when Im not that into him.. He wants a chase.. but I hate the chase. I feel like if I like you and you like me.. we shouldnt do those things. He once told me that he does it to keep me interested in him. Mind you that it does, but Im sick of it. So now I have convinced myself to report to his stupidity by playing like im super busy and not text him. Will a relationship like this ever work out.
Apolodor Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Sorry to hear your story, but you should know the answer by now.... If someone ignores me, that's bad in my books. I am usually ignored by women who are not keen on me and who have a fairly hectic social life. If you are not his number one priority maybe it's not worth pursuing this a**hole. A lot of other guys would treat you with much more respect.
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