OSCAR_BUSTOS21 Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I will thank you all in advance for your comments, firstly I would like to say I'm very confused as is she. I broke up with her after christmas, ridicolous reasons and things had been very poor about a month before that. We'd had a very bad arguement in November and I believe that me not wanting to move location to her town was the major reason, however I also said some awful stuff. Fast forward to January when I tried to get her back, she said she needed time to heal and space. So I played hard to get, made about every mistake going and then 2 weeks ago told her I wanted her back and said she had 3 weeks, dumb move. Anyway since a converstaion last week I have realised she is bitterly hurt and miserable. I told her I needed nc and she told me that wasn't an option and that she would get back with me now if I was gonna leave, even though it wasn't right. We see each other twice a week, make love like never before, she initiates contact and tells me she will always love me unconditionally. So my questions for you good people is: - She indicates that she loved me that much that she stopped caring about herself and is no longer happy. i.e. she wants to be happy before progressing onto getting back. TRUE/FALSE?? - She says she has to rely on herself for happiness, because what happens if I leave her again states shes broken. TRUE/FALSE?? - What am I supposed to do, I want to get through this with her by my side?? - What I'm thinking is, is this possible for someone to love u that much that they forget themselves? - What should I do? I will do anything for her. - Will nc make her realise that she misses me, contact is hurting with her as I love her so much? It is so plentiful but we are not together. Now for all of you that think I'm a complete dick don't worry, I'm suffering big time now. I'll do anything to get her back, I truly love her and wouldn't attempt to get back if I didn't. She has asked to go to counselling with me, which I would love to try. Stuck.
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