stacey84 Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 my bf recently split from me as he said it wasn't working out as i never chilled out enough and was always let small things get me down and was very committed to our relationship by one day wanting to move in together and he said he was not ready for it??? we as far as i knew was very happy togehter he was right i do get down alot about silly things and this muct of annoyed him and if he had spoken i would of understood about the moving in thing... i just don't physically know what to do now with my life and feel so unhappy now i don't have him in my life he was such a big part of my life we would always see each other at weekends and 1/2 in the week but when we was not in contact we was always texting each other which was really nice and now to go from that to nothing its hard. he said he wants to remain friends as we was at the beginnning of our relationship but we was with partners too but we do have a good group of friends that are both of our friends and that would make it easier, but so confused how this would work out and if he wasnts to stay friends why has he not contacted me at all, he does reply when i texdt him but not straight away and quite blunt. he has said he will meet me to talk about some questions i want answered and would help me beable to try and move on, he understands that but said he needs to get his head straight at the moment and when he is ready he will contact me??? don't know how long i can wait??? please help how to help myself move on i have been going out with some friedns and am busy with my college course so concentrating on that but still think of him constantly in my spare time, i wonder if he is too. appreciate any replies to please help me stacey
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Awh! You seem Soo adorable I couldn't help but go ahead and help you...though I'm swamped ATM! Tour type of typing is a weakness of mine...Soo adorable! OK OK sorry about that...but its true.. Anyway. You need to start a no contact focus on yourself and how to improve in the areas of life, that you feel are lacking. Unfortunately, this happens. They seem happy, and bam! It hits you.... Time to be selfish and focus on you. You seem so sweet too.
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