Lolita_Sky Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 This guy and I spent a lot of time bonding, getting to know each other. We connected on such a deep level that we both felt drawn to each other. We started off as friends then he started to express interest in me telling me how he felt about me. Well initially I did not reciprocate those feelings. Fastforward three weeks later. We have our very first kiss, and I tell him that I really like him and that I feel he's a special person to me.*The following day his whole behavior changes. Its like he steps back completely after i confess my feelings. Doesn't call or text and this behavior is consistent throughout the whole week. I confront him about it Saturday. His rebuttle is that he thought we were just "friends". We kissed for crying out loud! What friend do you know that you kiss?? He denies that he's avoiding me. I told him that if he is no longer interested in me then that is fine we can just be plutonic friends excluding things about feelings etc. Told him id always be there for him if he needs someone to talk to. I wake up the next morning to see he called AND text me last night. He text me throughout the day yesterday as well. All of a sudden he is interested in me again. So what is up with this guy? What is his game? Is he trying to play with my emotions?
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Sounds like he is playing with your emotions. Eithercase I wouldn't let him...he's playing too hot'n-cold.
Author Lolita_Sky Posted February 25, 2013 Author Posted February 25, 2013 That's what I thought too. But he's completely respecting my wishes about being platonic friends. He doesn't call me any pet names anymore. He called me yesterday morning and we talked for almost an hour about things that we're both very much into or follow/research. But I ended the conversation because I had some where to go. Then he text me several hours later. Maybe he is unsure of how to make the first move or something? When we hung out at his place a couple weeks back he never not once tried to do anything, physically. He seemed kind of nervous being alone with me. He wasn't his talkative self I dunno what to make of him. He's very respectful, I can honestly say that. If I ask him if I make him nervous he will definitely say tgat I don't. He's certainly not the type to openly admit that. He's sort of a "manly man". You know the type that doesn't tap into their emotions a whole lot. Lol
Toddbt12y1 Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Well. Thar could be it. Maybe take it as friends for a while...see where that leads you too.
Author Lolita_Sky Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 Yeah. That's what im going to try.
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