mishy Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I have really just started looking at him objectively. So when i think about texting him i think 3 things: 1. meh, he has moved away and probably wont see him again so why bother? 2. he has moved away and is probably lying about it being permanent like he did five years ago when he freaked out over me and lied to me for 4 weeks about being in melbourne, and is getting off on me being upset about the move, exactly the same as what he did back then, so even MORE reason not to contact him- he is a liar. So why bother contacting him? 3. he moved away and didnt even tell me he had left until he had got off the plane. So why bother contacting him?
geegirl Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I have really just started looking at him objectively. So when i think about texting him i think 3 things: 1. meh, he has moved away and probably wont see him again so why bother? 2. he has moved away and is probably lying about it being permanent like he did five years ago when he freaked out over me and lied to me for 4 weeks about being in melbourne, and is getting off on me being upset about the move, exactly the same as what he did back then, so even MORE reason not to contact him- he is a liar. So why bother contacting him? 3. he moved away and didnt even tell me he had left until he had got off the plane. So why bother contacting him? Mishy, you can do better than that. All three revolve around the probability of him having moved and his motive, so why bother? Spice up your list. All three point towards distance being a reason why you should not bother, rather than you not wanting to be bothered because of who he is as a person and how much her mistreated you. If you want to look at him objectively, start listing character traits. Situations that left you feeling wrecked. Treatment that made you feel devalued. Lies that he told you. Times when you felt used. The above list is lame, really. Dig deep.
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