9Lives Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 I was in a relationship that seem to be fine for about 8 months. We had great communication and sex. He always told me he loved to talk to me and he trusted me too much. I told him I would never hurt him or sleep with anyone while I am with him. Well, one week...we talked on the phone for 5 hours straight and he opened up to me saying he did not want anyone to be with me and a couple of other things he shared which made me understand that I wasn't just sex for him. Trust me, at first it was just sex. However he got caught up. The next day, which was friday we had amazing sex. Very delicious. The following we did not talk until Tuesday which was very unusual for us. We did not talk then I called him on Monday to find out what was going on.....He told me oh, and by the way, he had told me before this happen that he was torn. He started going to church and began to feel bad. okay, he told me *Asked me how did I feel for him deep in my heart? -I told him I cared for him alot but I was not in love. He said he felt the same. *He told me that he was doing alot of thinking over the weekend about us. I was confused about that because we both know what is up. He is not leaving home. *He told me he had talked to his father about his marriage and that he is going thru some things. *He told me that he need a "out" to deal with home. I think his wife stress him out and does not support him sexually that much or emotionally that much. ----I think I was his out. Meaning he could be with me, get the loving he wants, get the communication he needs. Just feel good about himself and what not. I told him we could be just friends if he wanted but he did not bite. I asked him, what do you want? He told me he did not know. I knew then I better start getting ready for the breakup. So we were going to hook up on Thursday to work out. We had been talking. On Wednesday, he watched Passion of Christ. On Thursday he was ready to end the relationship. I did it for him. The emotional rollercoaster was getting to be too much for me. He was up and down too quickly. One day he wants to rip my clothes off, the next he is mr good boy. I can't live like that. I did not even go to work today because I need some time to myself. Needless to say, I am drained. I am glad it has come to an end but I miss that man. I want him to miss me too which I know he does. I dont know I wish I could maybe be with him again but I am glad we stopped. What is a woman to do?
The_Analyzer Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 I think its good you ended it. He needs time as well as you. Try to stay strong. It will all work out one way or another. Good luck.
Author 9Lives Posted September 2, 2004 Author Posted September 2, 2004 What do you think he needs time for?
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