Sososad Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 So here's my lesson to you guys I broke no contact was nearly 3 weeks Tried a peace offering of sorts didn't really work out She came over dropped my stuff back and here's what I learned -shes a new tattoo -shes also a new piercing ( ill say no more) -brand new hairstyle -new car There just some of the more harder hitting ones But some stuff about us - shes moving on "new chapters" I'm old news now Doesn't want to go back - doesn't think she still loves me anymore -didn't miss me in 3 weeks at all -lovin life with her new found girl pals (Claims all she ever wanted in good friends and now she has it) -doesn't remember ever been happy with us So what I learned .... Despite what you feel and hope in your gut this site is right .. When people say move on its over seriously listen . We think we know our exs but c'mon where so messed up from breakup we'd miss every signal possible and interpret the wrong ones. Thinking of breaking no contact ? Ask yourself why ? Ask yourself if they love you so much why haven't they done it . Why haven't they been in touch? All these questions are obvious we just choose to miss them. No contacts not a game and hoping it works to get them back .. If your waiting for that text or playing you may as well sit there and keep ringing /texting annoying the crap outta them because you ain't moving on . Today's been a tough one for me.. And she couldn't have spelt it out clearer leave me alone -let me go .. And I still found myself thinking maybe she doesn't mean it ... I'm not logical it's not easy . But guys please don't play love and people as a game ... It delays your healing , and when you do break contact it's a kick in the nuts... Don't know what else to say here I've just emptied my brain out. Tomorrows a new day please god there happy and I find mine too somewhere . This hurts right now and I hope this can help someone on here find courage or else stop them doing something they regret .
aliceinthebox Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 So here's my lesson to you guys I broke no contact was nearly 3 weeks Tried a peace offering of sorts didn't really work out She came over dropped my stuff back and here's what I learned -shes a new tattoo -shes also a new piercing ( ill say no more) -brand new hairstyle -new car There just some of the more harder hitting ones But some stuff about us - shes moving on "new chapters" I'm old news now Doesn't want to go back - doesn't think she still loves me anymore -didn't miss me in 3 weeks at all -lovin life with her new found girl pals (Claims all she ever wanted in good friends and now she has it) -doesn't remember ever been happy with us So what I learned .... Despite what you feel and hope in your gut this site is right .. When people say move on its over seriously listen . We think we know our exs but c'mon where so messed up from breakup we'd miss every signal possible and interpret the wrong ones. Thinking of breaking no contact ? Ask yourself why ? Ask yourself if they love you so much why haven't they done it . Why haven't they been in touch? All these questions are obvious we just choose to miss them. No contacts not a game and hoping it works to get them back .. If your waiting for that text or playing you may as well sit there and keep ringing /texting annoying the crap outta them because you ain't moving on . Today's been a tough one for me.. And she couldn't have spelt it out clearer leave me alone -let me go .. And I still found myself thinking maybe she doesn't mean it ... I'm not logical it's not easy . But guys please don't play love and people as a game ... It delays your healing , and when you do break contact it's a kick in the nuts... Don't know what else to say here I've just emptied my brain out. Tomorrows a new day please god there happy and I find mine too somewhere . This hurts right now and I hope this can help someone on here find courage or else stop them doing something they regret . On a good note you at least had the benefit of knowing rather than expecting something to happen. While you may think this set you back, but maybe it moved you along despite the hard feelings you just encountered. You at least won't be one of those poor souls who in the back of there mind will be hoping there's still a chance along the line. You confronted the beast lol and now you don't have a reason to look back.
Author Sososad Posted February 25, 2013 Author Posted February 25, 2013 It's funny the mind still doesn't want to accept what it's told .. Guess I need it kicked right home .. So so frustrated with this set back I'm right back to the very start .
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