Eternal Sunshine Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I see so many people on here in varying dating stages playing games, trying to "increase" or "hold" someones interest. If you want another dysfunctional relationship by all means, go ahead. How long should I wait to call text? Oh I will pretend that I am busy and won't respond to her text for 2.5 hours. Stop stop stop! How about just act naturally and call/text/respond when you feel like it? If you are a fast mover, go with that. It doesn't matter that Sally and John took it slowly. This is about YOU. You can't have a healthy relationship if you have power games and who has the upper hand at the back of your mind. If being you is not enough then the relationship is doomed anyway. The absolute worst you can do is hold on to a dysfunctional relationship in an artificial way and let your life stagnate! 13
fortyninethousand322 Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Sometimes being yourself isn't a good way to go. I hate to say it, but game playing works. 1
Dark Phoenix Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 the "game" is rigged against women hence the stop playing games thread by a woman
Sun Devil Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Games will stop when women will start dating guys who genuinly care and love them rather than date guys just because they are charismatic. However, I do not see this happening anytime soon
kimberlydoll Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Games will stop when women will start dating guys who genuinly care and love them rather than date guys just because they are charismatic. However, I do not see this happening anytime soon Funny, Ive tried that and alot of men pretend to genuinely care when they are after one thing...
yongyong Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 To be honest, that's like saying let's save the earth. you might be using reusable bags but many people are using plastic bags. that's just normal. I wouldn't say you should just ignore someone or intentionally do something to increase their interest level but there is a norm you have to follow. (it's different by the culture and each person though) Generally, a girl like you will do well in asian countries. but not here.
Krieger Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 If I do not play games and play hard to get and sound interesting she will want noting to do with me. I hate when a girl says I am nice so I have to kinda make it seem like i am a jerk . I would like to share my feelings but i have to hold back until the time is right.
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