rose1990 Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Basically I was seeing this guy over the last three months and earlier this week I ended things. I did this because when I was out at a club with mine and his friends I saw him walking off holding hands with another girl, who I found out later he slept with. I text him saying that we were done and to never speak to me again. He responded the next day saying we were never a 'we' in the first place and that jealousys a bitch. When we first started seeing each other I stupidly slept with my ex boyfriend. I told this new guys a few days later, he responded saying that we were only sex anyway and he didn't want a girlfriend and that he didn't care. We carried on seeing each other but afterwards he didn't seem as interested in me as he was before, he just seemed a bit off with me. I told him that I didn't care about my ex, which I don't. I care about him. Therefore his reasoning over this is that I did it first so why shouldnt he. Which I understand completly, but it still hurt so much to see him. Especially as I admitted to him the previous week that I liked him and I'd hate to see him with another girl. Even though we weren't serious, we finish uni soon and didn't think it would be a good idea, he would still be really affectionate towards me and tell me he liked having someone to care about. So his actions have been very suprising. I saw him out a few days later and every time I was anywhere near him he would walk away 5 seconds later, I was with all our friends a lot so a lot of the time he would just go off on his own and stand near the bar. I text him at the end of the night saying that I didn't mean to make things awkward for him and that I didn't want to fall out. To no reply. I want to sort things out with him but I really don't know how to go about it without seeming desperate/clingy. We were friends previously before and are in the same friendship group. What should I do?
kimberlydoll Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Why you continued to see a man who told you that you were "just sex" is beyond me. What is with the low levels of self esteem among women today? Get tougher 1
kaylan Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Why you continued to see a man who told you that you were "just sex" is beyond me. What is with the low levels of self esteem among women today? Get tougher I dont think the dude did anything wrong. If Im hook up with a girl, and she later tells me that she was still recently hooking up with her ex, then I will feel free to do whatever I want. How in the world can she get upset with the guy when she set the precedent herself? Hes right...jealousy is a bitch, and she shouldnt expect him to say anything to try and keep her around. Cut your losses and move on OP.
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