Simplynothing Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 My boyfriend and I are both 19, we have been dating for a year and a half. Before we officially started dating we took things slow and went on dates and got to know each other really well for 6 months beforehand. I have met his entire family, and they seemed to really like me (some more than others of course.) I have been on camping trips with him and his family. I have been to family dinners, family events, I've played family games. I've helped out as much as I can when I'm over, I've cleaned, cooked for his family, helped out when I've gone camping, in my eyes I've done everything right. His mom constantly says its refreshing to have a girl around (she has 3 sons, my boyfriend being the oldest, and I'm the only gf) Anyway they planned a family trip to Mexico and I wasn't invited. Actually my boyfriend was told that "we don't want her there" I would have been perfectly fine with paying half, or all of my fare. And money was not a problem. I would have been fine with getting my own room too. I have never been to Mexico, and my family has only been on vacation twice to wdw, So it would have been an amazing experience. Meanwhile they have been on plenty of vacations. My boyfriend doesn't see an issue, and I personally would have just liked to have been invited rather than " we don't want her there " Am I being crazy and making a problem out of nothing or should I be concerned? I know for a fact if it was my family going on vacation he would have been invited. Oh also it's not just their family, it's some cousins and his moms friends going too. I would just like to hear your opinions thank you. And sorry for the bad grammar, I'm not feeling well.
mammasita Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 I think you're making a big deal out of it. Perhaps they legitimately would like to have family time, quote "a family trip to Mexico". Don't take it so personal. It's one vacation and from your list of things that you've been included in, a vacation is not one. I'd be more upset if you had gone on one and they didn't invite you this time
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