spiderdude69 Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Why iam attracted to large women? Everytime i go out and go to the store i always check out the females. But its the large ones that i really like checking them out. I never really felt this way. But last night i went to supermarket and i saw this ( i dont know how to put it because i dont want to sound rude or mean) But this very sweet large woman i want to talk to her but did not know how to because we would think i was making fun or her or etc. But i do like large females.
Breathe Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 So you like large females - so do a million other men. No big deal! Go for what you want!
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Everyone has different taste. That's why everyone always find someone for them. For example, I do not like built guys and my friends think I am crazy, but I'm just not attracted to them. There's someone for every preference
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 You feel that it's wrong to like a heavy woman? They are just like anyone else, why would it not be ok?
Author spiderdude69 Posted September 2, 2004 Author Posted September 2, 2004 well i would feel people would make fun of me. Because of my taste There is girl that like me, she live near me, But she is over 300lbs and iam 149lbs. Iam scare if i become her boyfriend people will make fun of me
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 So you will rather be with someone who meets the majority of peoples criteria of beautiful instead of someone that meets your criteria of beautiful? If you keep thinking about what people think you are never going to be happy.
Author spiderdude69 Posted September 2, 2004 Author Posted September 2, 2004 I want to happy. But why people like that!! ya i know she is bigger then me but should i let that stop me?
YellowLioness Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Yes, its ok to like big girls. No, there is nothing wrong with it. People will always fear and dislike those different from themselves. Its just human nature. I'm not sure why you are so worried about her weight. Are you afraid that being with her will make you look bad?
Author spiderdude69 Posted September 2, 2004 Author Posted September 2, 2004 No i dont really care about weight but she is around 350lbs and iam 149lbs would people still say somthing to me?
tiki Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Dude, if you're SO worried about it, do her a favor and don't date her or waste her time. She'd probably rather be with someone not so paranoid. Either get over it or get out.
Author spiderdude69 Posted September 2, 2004 Author Posted September 2, 2004 Iam not. She is nice to me and likes me alot. How can i do that to her? You guys are good in giving me advice.
Author spiderdude69 Posted September 2, 2004 Author Posted September 2, 2004 So i should not be paranoid? So it does not matter how big she is?
YellowLioness Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Seriously. Don't waste her time. She probably wants someone who would be proud to be with her. You don't seem like you are proud to be with her. People are giving you the answers for questions you asked, but you don't want to hear them. Yes, people probably will stare at you for having a large girlfriend. People stare at every thing. Will they say some thing? I dunno. I'm not psychic. They may, or they may not. *shrugs* Who cares if people do say some thing? Would it make you love her less if you were walking down a street and some body screamed, "Whoa! She's huge!" If it would, then don't date her. The proper response for you to make if some one were to yell is, "Shut up you shallow piece of sh*t," or maybe, "You can't see beauty when its right before you, buddy."
tiki Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Why would it matter how much the woman weighs?! They aren't the one dating her, you are. She's the same as anyone else...black, white, skinny, fat, ugly, pretty. How would it make you feel if she was afraid to date you because of [insert characteristic here]? That would suck, eh?
YellowLioness Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 So i should not be paranoid? So it does not matter how big she is? is this thing on? can you hear me? hellooo.... only if it matters to you. other people aren't interested or dating her. you ARE. Do you see what we're trying to tell you? It doesn't matter what other people think of you. If you are happy, that is all that matters.
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Originally posted by tikibrandy Dude, if you're SO worried about it, do her a favor and don't date her or waste her time. She'd probably rather be with someone not so paranoid. Either get over it or get out. You took the words from my mouth! tikibrandy is right, if you are so paranoid then don't be with her and find someone who you feel people will accept. If her weight is such a big issue then leave her alone because you might end up hurting a beautiful person on the outside as well as in the inside I can definitely say that if I like someone I will go out with that person regardless of what people think. I am not going to ruin my life to please other people and see them happy while I'm not!
Author spiderdude69 Posted September 2, 2004 Author Posted September 2, 2004 yes you are right! maybe i should stop thinking of what other will say and not care about it! any good tips on how to make her happy?
tiki Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Originally posted by spiderdude69 any good tips on how to make her happy? Tip #1: Don't act like you are ashamed to be around her.
Author spiderdude69 Posted September 2, 2004 Author Posted September 2, 2004 Ok thanks and other tips that would show her i care and want to be with her?
tiki Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Pay attention to her, be attentive to her needs. Adore her. Treat her with respect. Court her. Be a gentleman. Be kind and sincere. Be soft. Take her out often. Be proud to be with her. Women eat that sh*t up. Good luck.
Author spiderdude69 Posted September 2, 2004 Author Posted September 2, 2004 well since some of you all are females. I would like to know what females like. Any great points that would make her melt lol
tokyo Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Most men don´t worry why they prefer blondes or brunettes or whatever, so why do you wonder about your taste of women? Everyone has his preferences and if you like the a size bigger, so what?? Obviously you haven´t talked with a lot of men with really weird preferences....
knight56 Posted September 3, 2004 Posted September 3, 2004 Leave the poor guy alone. He not sure what he wants. If i where you, i would like her for who she is. Good luck!
honey2005 Posted September 3, 2004 Posted September 3, 2004 If you really like her and want to be with her, don't worry about what other people say.
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