Kevin Q Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 I just talked to my one friend and she said I'm good looking but this girl I like is into bad boys. I'm shy and innocent. What should I do? This girl I like danced with me at the dance and this is what happened. My best friend was dancing with her then someone said that someone needed to dance with me and the girl I like said she would. Keep in mind I don't talk to her much. So she came to me and grabbed me by the tie and said come on. When we got to the group of ppl she was telling me how to grind but I knew how so she said bend your knees so I did really far the be funny and she laughed a bit and said not that far. Now you maybe think she was forced to dance with me but she was actually really grinding on me and grabbed my hands to pull then down farther her legs and grabbed my pants a few times. She danced with like 5 other guys all popular and good looking but im popular now. Then later she came to a group I was in and my best friend said sing this song and I said no and she said come on Kevin song it but I didnt. Then she said let's go sit down to the group and we all did. I'm pretty sure she was glancing at me a few times but I never looked. Her ex broke up with her 2 months ago cause he didnt want a gf in college but has another gf already. What should I do? My friend is asking her if she would date me or think about it in the future(I know to talk to her but I don't want to waste my time if she isn't ever going to be interested) but she said she would text me what she says and hasn't yet.
sid3 Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 I just talked to my one friend and she said I'm good looking but this girl I like is into bad boys. I'm shy and innocent. What should I do? This girl I like danced with me at the dance and this is what happened. My best friend was dancing with her then someone said that someone needed to dance with me and the girl I like said she would. Keep in mind I don't talk to her much. So she came to me and grabbed me by the tie and said come on. When we got to the group of ppl she was telling me how to grind but I knew how so she said bend your knees so I did really far the be funny and she laughed a bit and said not that far. Now you maybe think she was forced to dance with me but she was actually really grinding on me and grabbed my hands to pull then down farther her legs and grabbed my pants a few times. She danced with like 5 other guys all popular and good looking but im popular now. Then later she came to a group I was in and my best friend said sing this song and I said no and she said come on Kevin song it but I didnt. Then she said let's go sit down to the group and we all did. I'm pretty sure she was glancing at me a few times but I never looked. Her ex broke up with her 2 months ago cause he didnt want a gf in college but has another gf already. What should I do? My friend is asking her if she would date me or think about it in the future(I know to talk to her but I don't want to waste my time if she isn't ever going to be interested) but she said she would text me what she says and hasn't yet. I could tell you not to sweat it and everything will work out just fine, or I could say stop acting like such a pussy. Which would you prefer to hear? This being an advice based forum, which type of advice do you feel would help you reach your goals.
Author Kevin Q Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 I could tell you not to sweat it and everything will work out just fine, or I could say stop acting like such a pussy. Which would you prefer to hear? This being an advice based forum, which type of advice do you feel would help you reach your goals. Aren't they both the same? I guess either one would be fine. I just want to know want to do and advice
Author Kevin Q Posted February 27, 2013 Author Posted February 27, 2013 Anyone else that can help me?
thecrucible Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Anyone else that can help me? Just ask her out. Try and lock down her interest quickly. Don't waste too long in the pursuit. I don't mean be a jerk, I just mean make your interest in her unequivocal. Don't try being her friend to get her to date you. That never works.
IndianGuy87 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 She was just being nice to you. Now she might get creeped out and somewhat regret for being nice if you happen to make a move or ask her out since you're not her type. Well, if you're really good looking then she might say yes.
sabre80 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 You should tell her the following: "Hey I heard from friends that you are into bad boys. . . .not to toot my own horn or anything, but last week I went to Disney.com | The official Home Page for all things Disney. . . WITHOUT my parents permission!" 1
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