singme2sleep Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 Why is my ex doing this? Help!!!? He broke up with me, 5 weeks ago. After one week I tried to call him but he didn't answer. I left him a voicemail just asking how he was and that I missed him. He didn't get back to me. Another week later, I got upset because I saw something on his Facebook that I thought was about me, so I casually texted him to find out. He answered back within 2 minutes with a response that it wasn't and he even said "lol" then he said he was at work and had to go. The next day I replied to his text saying "ok" and asking if I left my gloves at his house...he never answered me back. Now it's been almost a whole month of no contact and I'm wondering what the deal is. Our breakup was due to outside reasons, not lack of feelings so I thought we were going to at least talk and stay involved in each other's lives. Is he trying to keep his distance so he can focus on his life right now? If he wanted nothing to do with me, why would he have responded to my text and kept me as a friend on Facebook? Could he still want to be with me? I'm so confused and in need of advice! Please some male opinions!!!
richard9 Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 Why is my ex doing this? Help!!!? He broke up with me, 5 weeks ago. After one week I tried to call him but he didn't answer. I left him a voicemail just asking how he was and that I missed him. He didn't get back to me. my opinion is that you've made it clear to him how you feel, and he has chosen not to reply. facebook is a nightmare and if you are serious about going NC i would recommend blocking him so you dont have to deal with the possibility he is playing games with you by posting ambiguous messages that could relate to you. i would delete him off facebook to further the stages of NC imo, hope that helps
KathyM Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 I think he's made it pretty clear the relationship is over. I'm sorry, but you're coming across as desperate and needy, and that sure as heck isn't going to get him back. NC would be the way to go, and if he does ever want to resume the relationship, don't even take him back.
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