ally211 Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 There's this guy around the same age as me, who works at my local Starbucks (were in late teens) We know each others name and have said hi how are you/how has your day been. Also he does the whole staring thing, started with about 10secs but now stares for about 40secs I only notice cuz I look up form my drink/phone and he would be staring my way, I then look back down, look up in 30/40secs and he would still be staring. I sometimes stared back, but most times look straight back down. Last week I was sat their on my laptop watching my fav tv show supernatural, when he walk past to clear tables. They recently got some lamps to put on the tables so turned round to me and my parents and ask what we though of them, he was standing behind me so could see everything I was doing. I just carried on watching tv, while my parents spoke to him for about 2-3mins. This is the first time he's spoke to them, does this mean anything or was he just been friendly. Later that night I went to the toilet, and as I was just about to go into the women's he came out the mens and ask if me if I liked supernatural. I told him it was my fav show and he said it was his to and then had 1min chat about with me. (This is the most we've ever talked) I went again this saturday. I sat down with my laptop, while my parents went for a walk. I was sat facing towards the counter, it wasn't that busy so he kept staring at me, then turning to talk to another girl workmate, then back at me. Then about 20mins later my parents came back so I went up to order and he ask me if I had watched the latest episode. Then I ask him something else about it and we were talking for about 1min. Today we had to go out some were and stop by again. I don't normal go on a sunday. He was working again so sever me, and had remembered some of my order. Then at the end he ask me if I wanted my free wifi pass he said it once but then said again but pronounced it wefe passes and sought of laughed about it. I sought of laughed/smiled and then walk of to wait for my drinks. Does he like me. If so why hasn't he ask me out yet. As he seems like a very confident/talkative person around his other workmates/customers and other girls who come in that are friends. I would ask him out but, there's no other Starbucks in my area so if he says no I would haven't any were else to go. This has been going on for about 6months, I know people say that if a guy wants to be with you he would of ask you by now. But if he didn't like me why would he still keep staring at me.
RandomName12 Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 Seems pretty certain he's just targeting you for his next kill...nah only joking. Yeah it sounds like he likes you and maybe he's a little nervous about asking you out, especially if you go there with your parents a lot. One thing I need to ask though, if you asked him out and he said no, why do you feel you could never step foot in that shop again? It's really not the end of the world, just move on, it's not like he'd make fun at you about it and if he did then is that someone you really want to be with anyway?
Apolodor Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 From what you are saying, YOU have a crush on this boy because you seem to notice so much about him. Most likely he's interested in you as well. Since you are so young it might not be a good idea if you make the first step -- he might get the wrong impression about you (I'm assuming you want a steady boyfriend). I've never heard of men turning down women who ask them out for a date unless the women in question are truly hideous.
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