hardtoopleeze Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 I ve been with this guy since high school. I am 26 years old now. We've been living together now for the last five years. Recently, I noticed he was acting rather distant and rude to me. So I looked into it. Thanks to reverse phone lookup, I discovered he has been calling all sorts of escorts and bachelor party dancers all the time. He's been doing it for the last four years. Now, since I was out of town some of the times he was calling these girls, I can't prove that he actually went. He denies ever going to go see these girls, "just calling", he says. He is always reminding me that "he didn't go", over and over again. What I do know, is that he sure as heck wasn't at home those weekends plus, here's the kicker, he was also calling hotel rooms. Mmmmm, but there he has an excuse for that too. I was devastated. It felt like everything from the begining has all been a lie. I trusted him. My heart was broken. I stayed, but since then I have caught him calling these girls several times. He admits it, says he is sorry and won't do it again. I love him to death and I still want to be with him forever. I just need advice on what they would do if you were me. Is this right? Am I over-reacting er what. Help me!
Kasey70 Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Whats the reverse phone lookup? lol..just wondering. Its up to you what you feel you need to do. However, you should ask yourself is this the kind of relationship you want to be in, where you are always wondering if he is gonna do this again or not? Doesn't sound healthy to me. You stated he had been doing this for 4 years. Thats along time! Just think about what it is you feel you should do. Hope all works out.
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