Brunettie Posted February 23, 2013 Share Posted February 23, 2013 I know it varies, just curious. How should it be (ish) in regards to: - communication - how often you see each other - how each one feels about the other - what has or has not been discussed yet Link to post Share on other sites
Casablanca Posted February 23, 2013 Share Posted February 23, 2013 I'd expect to communicate every day, even if short conversation I'd expect to be in love with my partner and vice versa, I have a hard time seeing it taking someone 9 months to fall in love 2 Link to post Share on other sites
zanzi Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 I see him every day and if I don't I text him or hear from him every day. I love him more than Iv'e ever loved a guy, but he's never said the L word to me. It's getting to be a deal breaker, to be honest. Link to post Share on other sites
kristinaaa Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 There are actually some people who take their time to see if it's really love or not. Some people just don't want to jump or rush it right away. Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 For me it's unthinkable to be with someone for that long and not to say I love you or to only see each other 1-2 a week. What? Looking back, all my relationships that reached that mark involved: Seeing each other nearly every day/living together Talking all the time, sharing everything "I love you" spoken a looooooong time a go Solid commitment in place, integrated lives, met families long time ago Taken trips together, made future plans All friends are now mutual friends I go hard or go home 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Archgirl Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 Usually, if it's actually a serious committed relationship there would be contact every day. Preferably sexual . But seriously, after that long it should be comfortable, you shouldn't be worrying about when you see each other/why they haven't called and there shouldn't be anything unsaid because if you've made it that far you should be feeling much more secure. Are you posting about this because of any specific concerns? If you tell us maybe we can help Link to post Share on other sites
apple OR orange Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 same as it was on day one! Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted February 24, 2013 Share Posted February 24, 2013 I know it varies, just curious. How should it be (ish) in regards to: - communication - how often you see each other - how each one feels about the other - what has or has not been discussed yet this is a wonderful place to be the honeymoon period i sover , you are comfortable around each other, converstations are easier more flowing you have worked out your partners likes or dislikes you have shared soem dreams together and plan on sharing more, you talk every day withotu worrying hey did i text him too soon,friends and family basically know if you invite one you are inviting the other and they accept that,you know how to brighten that persons day with only a couple of words or an idea. if you are happy you are in for the long haul,and you are excited to share your life with them it would feel strange if they werent in it.... you see them for who they are ,they see you fro who you are adn you mesh on ideals and values and plans for the future and then you just enjoy the time you spend together,with daily contact..as i said a wonderful time and place to be......deb Link to post Share on other sites
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