Shaun-Dro Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 Something's seriously wrong here in NYC or even society as a whole when women continue to express interest when I make it clear that I want to be left alone. I've had my share of empty liasions last year into the early part of 2013 but I've grown tired of it and want to live my loner life happily but it just doesn't seem to dissuade these dames from trying involved with me. Struggling guys, here's my best advice if you're trying to hook up: stay mean keeps them keen!
Apolodor Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 ....And what was the purpose of your post??
IndianGuy87 Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 That's because you're probably really good looking. If you're unattractive, they aren't even going to come close to you unless you're rich or you're friend-zoned. Your advice won't help out any unattractive guys that are out there.
Author Shaun-Dro Posted February 23, 2013 Author Posted February 23, 2013 That's because you're probably really good looking. If you're unattractive, they aren't even going to come close to you unless you're rich or you're friend-zoned. Your advice won't help out any unattractive guys that are out there. I view myself as average, standing at only 5'6 so it's hardly that. I'll admit I do have extreme confidence in myself and very comfortable in my own skin and that's about it. I'm far from having a lot of money but I'm not broke, so I do okay as a whole. Since I cant find anything beyond cheap sex from these dames, it's become lame and tiresome so I spend most of my time alone, which I enjoy. I'm a loner by nature and love it because I get to do whatever I want on my own terms. I thought this would be a problem with most women and would keep them away but clearly it hasn't, for whatever other reasons.
FitChick Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 Struggling guys, here's my best advice if you're trying to hook up: stay mean keeps them keen! Only if you want to attract women with low self esteem. The rest of us will kick you to the curb. 3
Fondue Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 I kind of see the same thing. For example: I met up with a lady friend last night for drinks. She told me I was a bit of an ******* to her last time I met her for our date, telling me that I was rude to her during our car ride to the restaurant. Despite that, she was still interested in me and even told me before parting ways last night that she would really like to see me again and see if we can develop a relationship. During the same night, I was texting a different girl and asking her for advice, every text I sent was a bit on the harsh side to this other girl, and she kept saying "omgggggg, you're such an *******, I can't believe this girl likes you!" ANd yes, the girl I was texting was still very much into me. Both of these girls have high self esteem and have suitors available. Good looking men. And they are good looking women. Somehow treating people like poo can be effective. Not always, but effective. *** Funny thing to add: The girl I was with last night was getting hit on by a bunch of different dudes, and when I smiled and let her be hit on, she got upset with me for not showing them that she was with me. I told her that I don't want to cock block other men, seeing as she isn't actually taken. Even with that, she still wants me :\.
Krieger Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 To the OP I hear you . wear I live it is hard to find love but you have to work twice as hard. It's not that people here are unfriendly, they will hold the door for you and wave you into traffic and stuff like that, it's that everything is maddeningly impersonal. The attitude is "have a nice day, somewhere else". It's easy to get along but making friends is almost impossible. People will say they want to hang out with you sometime and look at you like a freak when you actually suggest something. People enthusiastically say they are coming to a party then don't show up. People are flaky and hard to pin down. Girls lead you on for weeks and snub you with no explanation. People are insincere. Norms of social interaction don't apply here. Most people don't like or dislike you, they're totally indifferent. Every interaction will be maddeningly superficial.
zanzi Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 some women have low self esteem and when they get partners, they feed off them emotionally. A lot of women love to be hated. Its not that they like you, its that they like that you confirm what they already think about themselves, i.e. that they are unworthy. I was one of these people once. 2
Eggplant Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 How is the gender ratio in NYC? I've heard it's great to be a guy there, terrible to be a single girl.
ScreamingTrees Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 How is the gender ratio in NYC? I've heard it's great to be a guy there, terrible to be a single girl. Huh, I must really be a failure, then, because I have no luck whatsoever.
NYC-BigKat Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 How is the gender ratio in NYC? I've heard it's great to be a guy there, terrible to be a single girl. Uh...its tons of girls all over NYC but they dont date nice guys at all. Look at my uncle he's nice to me 'cause I'm his nephew & stuff but he hardly talks to girls & doesn't really care about them & he always gets sex like its nothing all the time u know .
Eggplant Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 It sounds as though they're all wasting their time with mean guys like the OP!
NYC-BigKat Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 It sounds as though they're all wasting their time with mean guys like the OP! Yep NYC is a pretty mean city to live in people always on the go & no one cares about anyone nope. Its a hard place for nice people to live.
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