guest Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 hi, im new here so yea.. ok ... i have this friend who has a lot of problems. She's either always pmsing(her joke) or just has alotta drama in her life. But i think it may just be normal. She's usually coming to me for either advice or just emotional comfort or just getting it off her chest.And she's been there for me when my parents were about to divorce. So here's the thing, our friendship is very inconsistent. We talk alot when we do talk but then we wouldnt talk for days and even months. I don't think she minds but... well.. i fell in love with her and had to keep that secret throughout the 2 years of an inconsistent friendship relationship. I then realized i either had to tell her or move on cuz it was killin me (its been months since ive talked to her). So i cudnt get the guts to tell her so i just tried to move on. It took time but i did..well sorta. Now she's talkin to me again and i don't know wut to do. I want to be there for her but im afraid the progress ive made in getting over her will again be for nothing. I keep tellin myself not to get involved with her so much but its like she gives me no choice. So yea... wut shud i do? i dont wanna b mean n selfish and tell her to backoff but dont get me wrong. I do want to be there for her.. but im afraid that ill fall deeper in love with her. thx for ur time. and sorry if this thread blongs sumwhere else.
Breathe Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 What do you want? What are you willing to risk to get what you want? Do you believe this W can love you as you love her? Is she seeing anyone? Does she know you love her? Sorry for all the questions... just trying to get more info. Decide what you want. If it's her, you have to be willing to risk again for that chance. You don't want to regret not taking the chance. Sure it could back fire and you may be hurt again - but at least you tried.
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