shyguy30 Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 Hi I Have known this girl for a few years as both a work colleague and friend. Anyway we were out drinking with a group of friends and co-workers and she gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek and said "i like you". I didnt say anything to her but i held the hug and just gave her a big smile. Later on that evening we hugged several more times but she would be a friendly girl anyway in that respect. Now i might be a real dumb ass here but i don't know how to interpret that. is it she sees me as a good friend or does she wants something more. I like her a lot but don't want to get the wrong end of the stick here. I suck at picking up signals at the best of times. Please help!
Apolodor Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 Is this girl a co-worker? Is she part of your extended circle of friends? You were all out drinking, so her actions might not mean very much. Most girls in my office seem to loosen up quite a bit when we are at the pub. If she is a co-worker it might not be a good idea starting a relationship with her -- things can turn sour if you discover that you two are incompatible.
Author shyguy30 Posted February 23, 2013 Author Posted February 23, 2013 I wouldn't usually entertain the idea of dating a co-worker but i recently got a promotion and work in a different location to her now. Looks like i'm gonna have to just bite the bullet and say something or let this one go. Just after someone else's opinion on her actions and how they would read it
todreaminblue Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 I wouldn't usually entertain the idea of dating a co-worker but i recently got a promotion and work in a different location to her now. Looks like i'm gonna have to just bite the bullet and say something or let this one go. Just after someone else's opinion on her actions and how they would read it i dont know as i dont know her....i dotn hug guys unless i like them ....and its more than a friend the fact she hugged you several times, did she go aroudn hugging anyone else or just singled you out to hug..or was pretty much by your side........did she ask you if it was ok......before she hugged you or asked for the hug...if she is just a naturally friendly girl with guys she would not ask ....it would come naturally to her...when i hug a guy ....everyone who knows me knows ...yep deb likes him...i dont do it....and i awlays ask first...if its me initiating i dont plaster myself on someone unsuspecting.....i dont invade peoples personal space without permission.......and i am friendly person with a firm one to two metre radius policy....yes i have issues...but if i like a guy...ill naturally stand close..so did she ask how many did she hug and did she stand pretty close to you and not other guys, is she shy and friendly and if she did hug others were they females besides yourself..deb
Author shyguy30 Posted February 23, 2013 Author Posted February 23, 2013 No she didnt ask. she was sat on a stool and i lent over to talk to her and she just smiled at me then just grabbed me (not that im complaining). I dont recall her hugging other guys. She was sat next to me a lot of the time thinking about it. It was more the kiss on the cheek and the "I like you" that threw me. i mean when a woman says "i like you" that could mean a host of different things couldnt it?
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