2ndgenrationOW Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 i just started with a MM and i don't know if he will leave her but aside from that he has told me he does not want me to see other guys i don't know if it is cause he wants me just be his or not or if it is the hole he man thing and he thinks i am his now even thaw no sex yet just want to know what other women have done in this sort of thing thank you
Mr Spock Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Yeah. Ask him if he plans on still humping his wife.
DerangedAngel Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 He's totally using you. Please think twice about whether or not you want to be in this kind of relationship. -DA
PurpleAngel Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Originally posted by 2ndgenrationOW just want to know what other women have done in this sort of thing I’d dump his ass! 1.HE’S MARRIED!!!… why would you want someone else’s man 2. He can’t ask you not to see anyone else 3. What a selfish coward! 4. At the end of the day for you this can only result in low self-esteem issues and pain 5. As women we deserve SO MUCH MORE.. don't sell yourself so short so easily
9Lives Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 I went through that with my mm. You really dont want to listen to him beause if he leave you. You will be very lonely and hurt. He will be all hugged up with is wife. So stay on the scene. Trust me. You will reget not seeing other guys. He needs to stop being totally greedy.
joodee Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 That is not fair to you at all, my mm that I'm trying to break from gets very jealous, doesn't want me to date other guys...yet he cheated on me with another girlfriend, who "spilled the beans" about them. By the way, this other girlfriend also said he was jealous of her seeing other guys too. And the more I think about, he's probably telling his wife stuff so she won't file for divorce or go date. Yuck Don't do it. Just leave him.
Barby Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 I don't get that, obviously when you're a "OW" you can pretty much bet you're not the only "OW" this guy has had....it probably is more of an ego thing for him because clearly he's still doing his wife. Otherwise I'm sure he wouldn't still be with her. Men will tell women (women who tend to believe their every word) things that they want to hear in order to get what they want from them. I agree with Deranged 100% you need to seriously think about if you really want to be in a relationship where you're not number 1 and heck maybe not even number 2 or 3. If you're comfortable with this then I would say don't stop dating other guys...why should you when he still goes home to someone else every night while you're sitting at home all alone (possibly thinking of him).
Touch_of_Naughtiness Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 Originally posted by 2ndgenrationOW i just started with a MM and i don't know if he will leave her but aside from that he has told me he does not want me to see other guys i don't know if it is cause he wants me just be his or not or if it is the hole he man thing and he thinks i am his now even thaw no sex yet just want to know what other women have done in this sort of thing thank you Ugghhhh, man like that make me mad I say you date whoever the f*ck you want to date. He has no right over you. He better worry about his wife not dating anyone else! He is obviously a selfish little creature I'm not going to tell you not to go out with this man, but I will tell you not to deprive yourself of dating anyone you want. Maybe you will even find someone who deserves you and has no attachments to anyone else but you. That's probably what he is scared of. You have to be just as egotistical as him, if not more!
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