Shygirl98 Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 So there r two guys A: this guy and I joke back and forth saying the other one is a stalker. Also I brought him a cupcake one day and now he jokes asking did you bring me another cupcake. Also he always takes my stuff (jokingly) and hides it. He just teases me in general too. B: we played bball in gym nd after every game we played against each other he would tell me good game nd give me a high five nd we had an "all star" game the other day nd he would always pass me the ball instead of the other girls nd he would always give me a high five when we made a good play together nd afterwards we lost but he told me good job anyways. Oh and I suck at basketball and he is pretty good and now we are playing volleyball and we still aren't on the same team but the tides are switch. He always hangs around these two other girls in my class and talks to them and everything but he never really said good job as much to them even though one was on his team. Do either one of them like me?? I've never had a boyfriend or a guy really like me so I don't know how to tell!! What should I do? I've asked around and have gotten so many different answers so I don't know what to believe. I'm in 9th grade and 14 years old.
laaddict Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 So there r two guys A: this guy and I joke back and forth saying the other one is a stalker. Also I brought him a cupcake one day and now he jokes asking did you bring me another cupcake. Also he always takes my stuff (jokingly) and hides it. He just teases me in general too. B: we played bball in gym nd after every game we played against each other he would tell me good game nd give me a high five nd we had an "all star" game the other day nd he would always pass me the ball instead of the other girls nd he would always give me a high five when we made a good play together nd afterwards we lost but he told me good job anyways. Oh and I suck at basketball and he is pretty good and now we are playing volleyball and we still aren't on the same team but the tides are switch. He always hangs around these two other girls in my class and talks to them and everything but he never really said good job as much to them even though one was on his team. Do either one of them like me?? I've never had a boyfriend or a guy really like me so I don't know how to tell!! What should I do? I've asked around and have gotten so many different answers so I don't know what to believe. I'm in 9th grade and 14 years old. I would say its a bad idea to rush into a relationship. Now that I look back, if I had gotten into a relationship at a young age (like your age), I would have screwed up and we wouldnt be together, even if the person I found was perfect for me. You should focus on 1 thing, improving yourself. You are still growing, and if you work on understanding the world and making yourself a good person, you will grow to be someone who naturally attracts good people. Your life will be way better by delaying gratification just a little. Learning, and then applying that knowledge to your life. But what is more attractive to you? Have a boyfriend at 14-15 with a 80-90% chance of breaking up or Wait till you are 20-24, find a real MAN who takes care of you, cares for you deeply and compromises to please you. The first option, you will fal madly in love, lots of chemicals will be released in your brain when you touch each other, which will make you feel really good. But, you will probably lose your virginity, have your first kiss and a bunch of other stuff and then followed by a break up in which you will feel like complete garbage. This is more along the lines of a drug than an ADULT relationship. But who knows, maybe it works out for you. When you are developed enough (and you could possible be developed enough right now at age 14) you will know when he likes you, you will not doubt yourself, you will be satisfied with the way you behave towards him, and he will behave a certain way towards you so that you are satisfied as well. I wish you the best, and hope you have a long and happy life with a great family.
5anta Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 This is same post you put up a couple days ago. Why don't you just bump that one up to the top of the forum instead of making two threads that are the same?
laaddict Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 This is same post you put up a couple days ago. Why don't you just bump that one up to the top of the forum instead of making two threads that are the same? Maybe she just wants an answer... 1
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