bct360 Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 hello, my name is blake and i'm 16, i've only been out with one girl. we broke up a little while ago. i'm the reason the brake up happened. i never phoned her or anything.and we barely did anything. i was just to nervous. i even feel stupid for saying this. i'm over it now. i'm still a little shy around girls. i can't help it. i want to ask out this 15 year old girl, sheena. i'm pretty sure she likes me, and i like her. i'm friends with her brother and she flirts with me when i'm there. does anyone know how i should ask her out? if so, how should i act around her if i go out with her, what should we do?. sorry about this. i'm not great with the girls. my first relationship was a diaster. i want my next one to be a good one.i hope someone can give me a few pointers. thanks.
dbs Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 wow i thought this only happened to me, the same exact thing happened to me with my first gf she said I was always nervous around which is weird cause now i talk to her all the time, well advice well i really dont know what to tell you how about you do the exact opposite of wat you did b4 its working for me so far.
Ikemike Posted September 3, 2004 Posted September 3, 2004 Look dude im 18 and i went out with a girl for 2 years and she broke up with me i know how you feel i lock up all the time when i wanna talk girls, sometimes its best to just one day ask her out on a movie, that is the best possible way, dont be shy there are so many women in this world she is only 1 whats the worst she can say..No? oh wow big deal i know it will feel weird but just shine it on say "oh well i was just wondering no big deal" if she says no if that what your worrying about maybe do it over the phone always works cause your not face to face but just do it dont let this pass you up or it will HAUNT you for a long time trust me
LostnLove Posted September 3, 2004 Posted September 3, 2004 Girl's like shy guys, not just the bad boys. There is a sort of sweetness factor there. I have dated a lot. I'm in my mid 20's and girls want a guy who is going to be easy to talk to, funny and respectful. Trust me, the cockier the guy, the more turned off we get...but be confident. Just be yourself and let it happen naturally. Remember, you are only 16...don't rush to be in a relationship, have fun and enjoy life. The right girl will come along. Good Luck
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