3 mins into the 1st phone conversation and she was already asking me what I had???

[PhillyDude]

OK. So, let's say that it's a turn-off for you to speak to materialistic women.

 

Why the need to hang up?

 

Why not find a kinder alternative to end the conversation?

 

 

Why do I have to be polite to someone I'm never going to chat with again?

[TigerCub]

She just asked you if you drove, didn't ask if you liked your prostate played with...jeeze

 

Funny enough, I think he would have been ok with THAT question.

[KatZee]

I hung up because I was turned off. I am not insecure about anything. If u ask me what I have I will hang up

 

The end

 

Be prepared to never have any relationship of substance then. You have such hangups about what is "acceptable" and what isn't and that's the way it is for you then. No need for 15 pages of this nonsense.

 

Honestly though, the way you reacted is 100x worse than anything she "did" to you. Whatever someone asks you, whether it is offensive to you or not, is NO excuse for poor and rude behavior.

[xxoo]

I usually say that but it's after a hour or so. Not 3 mins into the conversation

 

You expect her to talk on the phone for an HOUR?

[Casablanca]

Why do I have to be polite to someone I'm never going to chat with again?

Karma (and just being a polite person in general)

[TigerCub]

Why do I have to be polite to someone I'm never going to chat with again?

 

OMG whoever raised you did a piss poor job!!

[xxoo]

Why do I have to be polite to someone I'm never going to chat with again?

 

Because you are a decent person?

[PhillyDude]

You expect her to talk on the phone for an HOUR?

 

 

Yes, I have never met anyone face to face who hasn't talked on the phone with me for atleast a hour

[KatZee]

OMG whoever raised you did a piss poor job!!

 

Seriously.

 

I highly doubt you're EVER going to find a woman on this planet who will accept such rude behavior such as yours. 37, and you act like a 13 year old. It's called being mature, and ending a conversation in a civil and respectful manner. The fact that you feel you don't have to be nice to people because you'll never see them again? That will encompass pretty much everyone you come across in your life then. Someone who serves your food, someone you may pass on the street. You're missing out on plenty of opportunity to learn some social skill here and you just keep excusing pathetic behavior.

[PhillyDude]

OMG whoever raised you did a piss poor job!!

 

 

I;m only polite to people who deserve it

[Casablanca]

Yes, I have never met anyone face to face who hasn't talked on the phone with me for atleast a hour

Why all these rules? The more rules you have, the harder it is.

[PhillyDude]

Seriously.

 

I highly doubt you're EVER going to find a woman on this planet who will accept such rude behavior such as yours. 37, and you act like a 13 year old. It's called being mature, and ending a conversation in a civil and respectful manner. The fact that you feel you don't have to be nice to people because you'll never see them again? That will encompass pretty much everyone you come across in your life then. Someone who serves your food, someone you may pass on the street. You're missing out on plenty of opportunity to learn some social skill here and you just keep excusing pathetic behavior.

 

 

But i bet it's ok for a 37 year old woman to do it right?

[PhillyDude]

Why all these rules? The more rules you have, the harder it is.

 

 

I have 3 rules

 

1. have a sense of humor

 

2. Have a pleasant demeanor

 

3. Someone who is not judgmental

[TigerCub]

I;m only polite to people who deserve it

 

No actually, according to you, you would feel justified being rude to complete strangers on account that you will never chat with them again..

[Casablanca]

But i bet it's ok for a 37 year old woman to do it right?

Uh, no...and you're 37? I always assumed you were about 22

[xxoo]

Why all these rules? The more rules you have, the harder it is.

 

Armchair psych time:

 

He's terrified of relationships, so he finds silly reasons to reject women.

[Casablanca]

I have 3 rules

 

1. have a sense of humor

 

2. Have a pleasant demeanor

 

3. Someone who is not judgmental

But you were just extremely judgmental on someone about an innocent question! Pot meet kettle

 

You also just mentioned the whole must talk to someone for an hour...that is a RULE YOU SAID, but didn't list here

[KatZee]

But i bet it's ok for a 37 year old woman to do it right?

 

Asking if you drive is rude. Mhm. OK. The sooner you pull your head out from your own a.ss, the sooner you'll realize that the problem isn't everyone else, the problem comes from you.

[sillyanswer]

Why do I have to be polite to someone I'm never going to chat with again?

 

You don't actually have to, but in my experience it's the way civilised adults often behave.

[PhillyDude]

But you were just extremely judgmental on someone about an innocent question! Pot meet kettle

 

You also just mentioned the whole must talk to someone for an hour...that is a RULE YOU SAID, but didn't list here

 

 

Yes I forgot to add number 4.chat on phone for 45 mins to 60 mins

 

 

If the phone convo is not flowing then it will not be a date

[TigerCub]

You don't actually have to, but in my experience it's the way civilised adults often behave.

 

hmmmm, maybe it depends on how the economy is doing, I dunno...

[ja123]

Why do I have to be polite to someone I'm never going to chat with again?

 

That's very sad.

[Robert]

This thread has run it's course and I'm sure the thread starter has gotten their questions answered

 

Thanks