3 mins into the 1st phone conversation and she was already asking me what I had???

[PhillyDude]

So, tell the other woman you hung up on that instead of hanging up on her. You just had a PANIC attack my friend!

Once I;m turned off there is no going back.

 

 

The old me would have lied and said YES I DRIVE and stood her up when it was time to meet. But I am more mature now and older and of course have no interest in that type of thing now

[snowflakes88]

Sorry to be harsh, but you're just insecure because you're broke. That's your problem, not anyone else's.

[PhillyDude]

Sorry to be harsh, but you're just insecure because you're broke. That's your problem, not anyone else's.

 

 

Most of the people in the country are broke

[SmileFace]

How you even got the phone number of a woman is beyond me.

[PhillyDude]

How you even got the phone number of a woman is beyond me.

 

 

If I got it online I believe it had to do with her being attracted to me

[SmileFace]

If I got it online I believe it had to do with her being attracted to me

Still beyond me...

[Anela]

It was like this

 

"Hey how are you

 

Her: "I;m fine and you?

 

"So how are you liking Philly so far?

 

Her: "I;m getting used to it day by day

 

Her: "Do you drive?

 

Me: HANGING UP THE PHONE

 

She wasn't asking you what you have, she wondered if you drive. It's a normal question.

[PhillyDude]

She wasn't asking you what you have, she wondered if you drive. It's a normal question.

 

 

We were not on the topic of meeting so why was that important at that point of the conversation?

[SmileFace]

At the end of the day you still end up alone and bitter .... what point are you really proving?

 

That you are beyond insecure that you **** up any chance that may actually have?(keyword: may)

That you are so scared of not being good enough - that you run before you can get dumped?

That you are a grown man with out a car? hehe

[Anela]

We were not on the topic of meeting so why was that important at that point of the conversation?

 

First of all, the reason for your talking was to potentially meet.

Secondly, it's a normal question, especially if you're in the city, where you have public transport.

 

Although, I have to say, I don't think you can fault them for judging you on whether or not you have a car, when you keep judging them like this. I want you to succeed, it would be nice to see you happy, but it seems like your last nerve is the only thing about you that these women meet - all of them.

[PhillyDude]

At the end of the day you still end up alone and bitter .... what point are you really proving?

 

That you are beyond insecure that you **** up any chance that may actually have?(keyword: may)

That you are so scared of not being good enough - that you run before you can get dumped?

That you are a grown man with out a car? hehe

 

 

Many grown men don't drive in this................NEW ECONOMY

[TheZebra]

OP is just trolling... with all of the paranoia he posts there is no way he meets this many women that actually talk to him for more than 5 seconds (and don't run away).

 

This type of behavior is just not normal. People who behave like this end up in loony bins...

[ChatroomHero]

Her asking if you drive was not judging your financial situation. She was most likely asking if you would be able to pick her up, possibly because she didn't drive or didn't know the area or maybe public transportation is used around you more than driving because of the parking situation.

 

You feel butt hurt about not owning a car or a house and took it out on her. Own up to it and be a man, you're probably the only person that really cares about it. Maybe next time provide a woman a list of approved questions ahead of time and see where it gets you.

[PhillyDude]

OP is just trolling... with all of the paranoia he posts there is no way he meets this many women that actually talk to him for more than 5 seconds (and don't run away).

 

This type of behavior is just not normal. People who behave like this end up in loony bins...

 

 

I obviously had other options if I hung up the phone

[SmileFace]

Philly you need a list

 

Don't ask me my name

Don't tell me about your sexual past(only one that makes sense)

Don't ask me anything about myself

Don't expect me to actually have anything

Know the economy in way that only works for me

 

 

on and on and on and on..jeez

[Eggplant]

Many grown men don't drive in this................NEW ECONOMY

She may not have cared at all how broke you were. You are too afraid of that, and so you read what she is saying the wrong way.

[PhillyDude]

She may not have cared at all how broke you were. You are too afraid of that, and so you read what she is saying the wrong way.

 

 

Well she lived outside the city and I figured that she was asking because it's was something important to her.

 

 

People ask only questions because they are important to them. Like I ask

 

Do you have sexy feet?

 

Do you like to watch TV?

 

Do you watch Sports?

 

Do you go to clubs and bars?

[Eggplant]

People ask only questions because they are important to them.

 

Not every question is necessarily about something important. If it's a first meeting, she may have been simply trying to lightly make casual conversation.

[Anela]

Well she lived outside the city and I figured that she was asking because it's was something important to her.

 

 

People ask only questions because they are important to them. Like I ask

 

Do you have sexy feet?

 

Do you like to watch TV?

 

Do you watch Sports?

 

Do you go to clubs and bars?

 

And driving makes it easier to get around. I should know, because I don't drive, and some men have frowned upon me for that. I'm an adult, and I don't drive.

 

I would be a bit creeped out over the "sexy feet" question, unless it was something you both had listed in your profile.

[PhillyDude]

And driving makes it easier to get around. I should know, because I don't drive, and some men have frowned upon me for that. I'm an adult, and I don't drive.

 

I would be a bit creeped out over the "sexy feet" question, unless it was something you both had listed in your profile.

 

 

Why? Woman are supposed to take care of their feet

[rocketman122]

PD I can understand your point. I have an issue with women talking about money and hang up on them the second they do. I dont ask them, dont ask me. women need to be more understanding.

 

I will say though that its very difficult to date without a car. I dated 2 women who didnt and it was hard. 1 was always using a rent by the hour car and it was ok but it was a logistics headache to go get it and another didnt have one but was scared to ride on my motorcycle and we winded up taking taxis everywhere and I didnt like that so I walked away from both.

 

after that I decided that if the women didnt have her own car then no way would I date her.

[ChessPieceFace]

Way to go dude. Not sure why you're stunned though. Meet more women and become less stunned by their shallowness and materialism LOL.

 

OTOH I don't think you'll have much success without a car. Then again maybe you'll have success with the right women.

[PhillyDude]

PD I can understand your point. I have an issue with women talking about money and hang up on them the second they do. I dont ask them, dont ask me. women need to be more understanding.

 

I will say though that its very difficult to date without a car. I dated 2 women who didnt and it was hard. 1 was always using a rent by the hour car and it was ok but it was a logistics headache to go get it and another didnt have one but was scared to ride on my motorcycle and we winded up taking taxis everywhere and I didnt like that so I walked away from both.

 

after that I decided that if the women didnt have her own car then no way would I date her.

 

 

Well I guess it depends on how far she is from you. Like I wouldn't meet a girl who didn't drive who lives in the suburbs.

[Anela]

Why? Woman are supposed to take care of their feet

 

But men aren't supposed to drive?

[PhillyDude]

Way to go dude. Not sure why you're stunned though. Meet more women and become less stunned by their shallowness and materialism LOL.

 

OTOH I don't think you'll have much success without a car. Then again maybe you'll have success with the right women.

 

 

I don't know many people who can maintain a CAR and a APT in 2013 all by themselves