OneNote Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 Ok so iv been broken up 3 months and did all the usual crying, begging ect then finally decided to go strict nc and have kept it for almost 3 weeks to try and move on and heal. My question is does nc take away the power away from the dumper?
Thunderchild Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 One Note - From what I've read and (on reflection) from my own past experience, NC gives you back your equilibrium/confidence, strength and power so that if you do have a mind game playing dumper/ex you can say literally or symbolically: "I'm not going to play your games any more, I won't feed your vanity/insecurity or assuage your guilt. I have control of my life and you have no power over me!" 2
purplereigncb Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 So true I feel I walked away with some dignity. I pretty much gave myself some respect back even if deep down inside I feel like crap. The dumper is none the wiser to how you truly feel. 1
Sugarkane Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 They then can't lie and feed you breadcrumbs. NC- means not being used for sex. 1
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