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I have a date next week. I look like hell and I'm still pining over my ex

 

too soon or just do it?

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Do it!!!!!! What do you have to lose. Just be respectful to the other person and don't be a downer

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Well you've got a whole week to change your look from "hell" to..... "swell"

(Oh I apologise for that...)

 

Go for it. As long as you're not committing to anything serious you're not betraying anyone's feelings (including your own). Dating could be just the cure.

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I have a date next week. I look like hell and I'm still pining over my ex

 

too soon or just do it?

 

Too soon. You'll only get home and feel like crap because everything about the date would have reminded you of the ex.

 

But, who knows...one must try.

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I only look like hell as I've not been wearing make up. I'm sure I'll clean up well.

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It might help you heal to get to know other people and do some social stuff. But just be careful not to rebound.

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I have a date next week. I look like hell and I'm still pining over my ex

 

too soon or just do it?

 

Get out there girl! Weekend get your hair done and buy a new outfit. Night of the date get dolled up to the nines.

 

Why? Part of the recovery process is getting back out there. Its only a date so you don't owe the guy anything. Now most times it won't be a particularly good date, but it can end up being the first step to moving on. And who knows you might end up having a great night.

 

Life can surprise sometimes. Go for it

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Go for it if you wanna boost your ego but don't go into the date thinking you're meeting your next boyfriend. You're not. You're not even 1% over your ex, and everything that happens that night is going to remind you of your ex, and you're going to sit there miserable wishing that the person opposite of you was your ex.

 

If you feel you're capable of having good conversation with another human being and not being a downer, go for the food, drink and company. But don't lead this person on, don't sleep with him, and don't expect anything from it.

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