adelia Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 A friend of mine told me today about an ex she had that was very vengeful towards her. We discussed it and both have been dumped in relationships but neither of us ever felt vengeful. Angry yes sad yes disappointed yes but never vengeful. Curious how others feel during or after the BU?
geegirl Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 A friend of mine told me today about an ex she had that was very vengeful towards her. We discussed it and both have been dumped in relationships but neither of us ever felt vengeful. Angry yes sad yes disappointed yes but never vengeful. Curious how others feel during or after the BU? The most was that I was cursing to the gods that the woman he was with would cheat or hurt him. But I never bad mouthed him, or did anyting to hurt him through actions. One thing to wish but another to act upon. It speaks highly of a person's character when/if they go down that route. It was most likely a blessing that it ended.
js1967 Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 I have had brief moments feeling vengeful and Im ashamed I felt that way. It would only last a couple seconds.
Minki Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 After this week I wish my ex was run over by a bus or a train, he did me more harm than I could have ever imagined!
todreaminblue Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 A friend of mine told me today about an ex she had that was very vengeful towards her. We discussed it and both have been dumped in relationships but neither of us ever felt vengeful. Angry yes sad yes disappointed yes but never vengeful. Curious how others feel during or after the BU? sad ...directed my anger more at th eother woman as .....a mother herself with a failed marriage....and the fact she knew he had a family, she also knew i was going through trials of this i am aware, i forgave him long before i forgave her, everything happens for a reason, i have always believed this.... now i wish them both well, i am not on that path with him anymore, im on my own ..dont know where mien is going but i know i will be happier, i wasnt truly happy because the trust had gone, it wouldnt have ever worked.......deb
Author adelia Posted February 22, 2013 Author Posted February 22, 2013 sad ...directed my anger more at th eother woman as .....a mother herself with a failed marriage....and the fact she knew he had a family, she also knew i was going through trials of this i am aware, i forgave him long before i forgave her, everything happens for a reason, i have always believed this.... now i wish them both well, i am not on that path with him anymore, im on my own ..dont know where mien is going but i know i will be happier, i wasnt truly happy because the trust had gone, it wouldnt have ever worked.......deb I think its one if those emotions you look back on and think differently and hopefully at the time didnt act on. it sounded like they deserved each other in the end. your pathway will be much better
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