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Friend's response to new relationship


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I got out of my relationship with my ex about 5 months ago, we had broken up a couple of times before so it wasn't anything new. Anyways it was a bad relationship, and after it ended I focused on myself and recovered pretty well, I believe I'm pretty okay now. So about a month ago I met a guy, I felt is click and since we were both interested in each other we started dating, and we are now in a relationship. For me I'm happy, and he's a great guy. But my close friend, only her, is responding really negatively to my new relationship. She says things in a way that seems like she doesn't think I know what I'm doing and that I'm moving too fast, or not being smart about it. It's kind of uncomfortable since she's one if my best friends. What are your opinions? Do you agree? What could I do? I didn't tell her about my relationship with him because I knew she would respond like that... I just feel good when I'm with him.

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Stop talking about her relationship with her if it bothers you. If you're happy, just focus on that.

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Your friend might see something in him that you are blind too. Being that it is a new relationship you are most likely in the honeymoon period and your lust/infatuation may be stronger than your rational thinking.

 

On the flip side of the token your friend may have become much closer to you over the past 5 months since you were single. She may see this new relationship as a threat to your time with her.

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