JHparkes Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 (edited) Hi there everyone Been seeing my boyfriend for 7 months. We get along well. We've had a few arguments, mainly started by me I have to admit. He was the first one to say I love you about three months into the relationship. Well since the last couple of months he hardly ever says I love you. He is very affectionate and I mean very, he always wants to either have a hand on my leg or arm round me etc. Sometimes its the way he looks at me and strokes my hair like I am a baby or something. We also spend nearly everyday together apart from when I'm seeing friends or he is working. We stay in touch throughout the day even when we are seeing each other that evening. This month he got me a valentines day card, which I wasn't expecting because he said he didn't believe in valentines day, but he got me one. I joked and said "you didn't have to nip to Asda on your way home" and he said he had been out the week before to get it. Inside of that he had put that he loves me. He has said "I love you" on a message couple of weeks ago too. He used to say it at the end of all calls and on a monday morning (prob because we wouldn't see each other for a few days after) but now he doesn't. In other ways I actually feel closer to him. We have just booked a holiday to Egypt with him and his son in July of this year. He hasn't been abroad in years and he's one of these very laid back people that says he's going to do things and then doesn't so I had to keep on at him about it to get it all booked. He has also asked me if I want to go to a concert with him and his son in August again (we went last year), so I'm guessing he takes it for granted we will still be together then. The other week I wasn't expecting him over as he had been working late, but he turned up to surprise me which I thought was really sweet. But why has he stopped saying the words to me? Edited February 22, 2013 by JHparkes
Apolodor Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 ....worrying and crying over spilled milk..... Did you actually spent any amount of time thinking before posting??
rocketman122 Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 great post. made me laugh out loud. my opinion..go get some tea and calm your mind down. sheesh. a guy who actually cares..and its still not good enough. its also obvious you need therapy and youre too clingy.
iKING Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 Perhaps he wants you to say it to him first sometimes
stillafool Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 Did you ask him why he stopped? He knows the answer so talk to him.
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