chrisvb24 Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 Hey guys, this is my first post here but please feel free to be brutally honest. So basically, I liked my hairdresser we got on really well and you could tell we enjoyed each-others company as we were always laughing together. I never plucked up the courage to ask her out as Im always wary because it is her job to be nice to customers after all. But anyway, I went in the other day to get a haircut to find that she had left and has taken a new career path. At that point I really did realise that I like her. Furthermore, everyone in the salon was asking me if I missed her (kind of as if she spoke about me a lot) and I told them that I thought she was really cool and I will miss her. They also said I was the first person they thought of when she said she was leaving :S So know Im thinking she might well have liked me and I screwed up big time. What do you guys think? Do you reckon she liked me? If so would it be a bit weird if next time I went in I asked one of the hairdressers to pass my number on to her? Please be brutally honest.
iKING Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 It's possible judging by their interest in a client's personal feelings, but as you said, part of their job is small talk and micro-management, I'd say give it a shot anyways. If It's the case, some non work related fun might spark things off. Keep your expectations grounded, but what do you have to lose?
Radu Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 Don't wait for the next time, go now. Ask them to contact her and see if she is ok with one of the girls there giving you her phone number. Waiting untill you need to go there means 'meh'. Going in now when you don't need to go there means 'i'm interested in you'. Not to mention that her memory of her is more fresh.
will1988 Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 OP Maybe you can ask her old coworkers for her number. You should've asked her out. thats how I met my GF, she is a hairstylest. I got my hair cut, asked her out, and have been together for a 3.5 years. When you call her, if you get her number from her coworkers, just ask her how she did your hair for future referance... and then try to meet up. 2
ruh roh Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 One question comes to mind. Were you a big tipper? If you were than it could be a 50-50 shot!
Author chrisvb24 Posted February 22, 2013 Author Posted February 22, 2013 Nope, I never gave a tip once. So at least I know she wasn't trying to get more money out of me
will1988 Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 Nope, I never gave a tip once. So at least I know she wasn't trying to get more money out of me My gf is shy and quiet, but tips are always welcome and what they look for. alot of hairdressers make around minimum wage and maybe comission, so like wait staff, bar tenders, and even strippers... hair dressers make a large portion of their money on tips.
Author chrisvb24 Posted February 22, 2013 Author Posted February 22, 2013 My gf is shy and quiet, but tips are always welcome and what they look for. alot of hairdressers make around minimum wage and maybe comission, so like wait staff, bar tenders, and even strippers... hair dressers make a large portion of their money on tips. Don't think thats the same here in the UK. I pay £30 for my cut and I know the hairdresser keeps a decent amount of that. I'll bite the bullet and do as the others suggested. Wish me luck!
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