Need help! i'm shy and can't seem to talk to the girl i like! Please Help!

[bball2079]

I'm male 15 and shy around girls that i like and need help to get over that. I'm getting sick and tired of feeling shy and nervous for reasons that i can't explain because i have no reason to be shy or nervous around her/them. I really do want to talk to her/them but can't because of it. The one time i did work up enough confidence to talk to her i think i screwed up and i made my self look like a total moron. I also can't seem to keep a conversation going at all with girls. So please any advice and/or help will be greatly appreciated!

[Flying Goose]

Ask yourself what's so special about girls that you should feel uncomfortable talking to them. If you can answer that, you're half-way to getting over the issue.

 

You must be a shy person if you're afraid to talk to someone because of any particular trait they possess - and your predisposition is most likely a reflection of your general shyness, rather than a unique problem in itself.

 

A simple thing to do would be to imagine the person you're going to speak to is someone you know very well, e.g. your best friend and use that attitute to talk to them. Once you get rid of preconceptions, people are actually extremely simple creatures.

[bball2079]

but yet i still can't keep a conversation going even if my life depended on it. So more help will definitely be appreciated!!!