Phoe Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 Also, I don't think you're ugly at all, if you'd chatted with me in college I would not have minded
iKING Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 Don't sit directly next to her, especially if there are typically a lot of available seats nearby. I always found it odd when someone would come and sit RIGHT next to me when there were available seats enough that everyone could have space. Sit behind her or in front of her, ask to borrow a pen or something, ask about an assignment, anything really. Agreed, sitting half an inch away from her is bound to make her uncomfortable. Go two over or behind or in front. If in front, wear some awesome cologne. Don't drench yourself, but humans remember scents really well. This girl knows how it goes, be casual about it. Excellent advice. 1
iKING Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 Also, I don't think you're ugly at all, if you'd chatted with me in college I would not have minded I tried to tell him that but he won't listen. Maybe because I'm a guy
Archgirl Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 I tried to tell him that but he won't listen. Maybe because I'm a guy You are very level headed and kind. I like it. Not many guys on here talk like you do, I'm glad you joined
Emissary Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 Just walk up, sit down next to her, try not to be too quiet or too loud. If she looks over at you, smile and say hi. Leave it at that for now unless she talks to you right off the bat. Talk to her every now and then, just light talk, if she's not a frigid *****, she should warm up to you enough over time that you can approach her outside of class. Also if another guy sits next to her, slit his throat and chant "The blood of the weak makes me stronger!" Will totally rock her world.
iKING Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 You are very level headed and kind. I like it. Not many guys on here talk like you do, I'm glad you joined You're so sweet Let us know what happens! 1
tman666 Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 It's already been said, but you just go do it. Start making small talk, smile, introduce yourself, etc. That's really it. Hot girls are human beings, just like you. Don't put them on a pedestal above yourself. If she's a chilly bish or rude, then you have your answer.
ChatroomHero Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 When she farts, it smells bad. At times she has bad breath. There are other guys that would find her not all that attractive. She has insecurities. Some days her feet smell. She gets wax in her ears. She has bad habits that would drive you nuts. If you want to sit next to her, live in reality and realize she is human and not better than you. If you keep her on a pedestal, even if she fell totally in love with you, she would get sick of you treating her like something other than human.
Author drakewrites Posted February 22, 2013 Author Posted February 22, 2013 Why give yourself a regret that you are 100% capable of changing? Sit by her. Normal people sit by each other. It happens. Hmm.. You could try the pencil idea while sitting next to her to break the ice and then be like I'm xxx by the way, or ask her about the subject. You're already lucking out by having a mutual interest, It's a great ice breaker. Don't think about things like oh I can't get a girl like that, It's simply not true. I know this from experience. Be a bit mysterious, they are captivated by it. But seriously manly man, you have to do it. Living with the what-if is going to suck more then giving it a try, even if you get rejected. Ugh alright man, I have class with her Tuesday, I'm going to try!
Author drakewrites Posted February 22, 2013 Author Posted February 22, 2013 Also, I don't think you're ugly at all, if you'd chatted with me in college I would not have minded Lol aww thanks!
Author drakewrites Posted February 22, 2013 Author Posted February 22, 2013 Just walk up, sit down next to her, try not to be too quiet or too loud. If she looks over at you, smile and say hi. Leave it at that for now unless she talks to you right off the bat. Talk to her every now and then, just light talk, if she's not a frigid *****, she should warm up to you enough over time that you can approach her outside of class. Also if another guy sits next to her, slit his throat and chant "The blood of the weak makes me stronger!" Will totally rock her world. LOL. I just googled that "blood of the weak" quote to see if it was from something but I guess not haha.
PogoStick Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 That sounds pretty creepy... I'm glad you understand this.
iKING Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 LOL. I just googled that "blood of the weak" quote to see if it was from something but I guess not haha. It's from "lucifer's big book of satanic rituals for blowing girl's minds: volume 2". Glad to hear you're getting back up again. We're proud of you! Keep your head held high and your expectations grounded and life might just surprise you. Remember you're awesome, and that being a blatant optimist is literally good for your health.
beyond Posted February 24, 2013 Posted February 24, 2013 Ok, speaking as a woman, I would not be at all offended if a guy sits next to me, smiles at me in a natural/non scary way(!) and starts up some sort of conversation - 'can I borrow a pen'? 'etc. Yes, we know sometimes it's because you want to chat us up....but so what! That's nice, it's a compliment to us! As someone here said - what is the worse that can happen? I guess the worse that can happen is that she is horrible/rude to you - in which case, would you really want someone like that anyway??? And stop with this 'I'm ugly' rubbish - it's not an attractive trait. Be presentable, be genuine, look her in the eye and smile....take the rest from there.
Author drakewrites Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 Well, I have the class next class period, so wish me good luck! I'm just going to try and go in there and not think about it sit by her and say hi. Then just slowly focus on breathing the rest of class. Next class I'll work on something else haha.
Author drakewrites Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 Ok, speaking as a woman, I would not be at all offended if a guy sits next to me, smiles at me in a natural/non scary way(!) and starts up some sort of conversation - 'can I borrow a pen'? 'etc. Yes, we know sometimes it's because you want to chat us up....but so what! That's nice, it's a compliment to us! As someone here said - what is the worse that can happen? I guess the worse that can happen is that she is horrible/rude to you - in which case, would you really want someone like that anyway??? And stop with this 'I'm ugly' rubbish - it's not an attractive trait. Be presentable, be genuine, look her in the eye and smile....take the rest from there. This actually helps the most lol, since it's realistic and from a female perspective. Ugh so nervous about to try to sit by her!
TheGuard13 Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Then be nervous. Some girls find that charming. You can be nervous and still display confidence.
Author drakewrites Posted March 1, 2013 Author Posted March 1, 2013 Well, Tuesday I sat where she normally sits, but she didn't even come to class that day. Greatttt. Today I sat on her side of the room, but a row back.
Author drakewrites Posted March 6, 2013 Author Posted March 6, 2013 I sat by her I sat by her I sat by her! :) :) I sat in the very back first for one day, and then the next day I sat where she normally sits! One seat apart I mean. When she came in she sat in the same spot. I asked her if I could borrow a pencil and she said I could just have one. YESSSSS... but now what?
iKING Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 I sat by her I sat by her I sat by her! :) :) I sat in the very back first for one day, and then the next day I sat where she normally sits! One seat apart I mean. When she came in she sat in the same spot. I asked her if I could borrow a pencil and she said I could just have one. YESSSSS... but now what? Success. I'm proud of you Drake. Now chat with her good sir! Chat like your life depends on it! (joking) Talk to her like she's a regular human being. Be confident and out going. Remember you're awesome and have a lot to offer (virtual mojo booster). Go in for the kill when you can seize the opportunity and don't let her notice you're posting on LS about her.
tman666 Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 Now is the time to make a shrine. Start collecting memorabilia that represents her: photos you take with your cell phone, used tissues, a lock of her hair, and of course, the pencil she gave you. Once it has been completed, do your best to get her to come over to your place to "study". This will provide you a golden opportunity to present your creation to her. Just be prepared for some filthy ape sex afterwards. Don't say I didn't warn you! 1
tman666 Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 But fo' realz, just talk to her, chit chat, and flirt. Don't be self-deprecating or apologetic about it. 1
iKING Posted March 6, 2013 Posted March 6, 2013 Now is the time to make a shrine. Start collecting memorabilia that represents her: photos you take with your cell phone, used tissues, a lock of her hair, and of course, the pencil she gave you. Once it has been completed, do your best to get her to come over to your place to "study". This will provide you a golden opportunity to present your creation to her. Just be prepared for some filthy ape sex afterwards. Don't say I didn't warn you! Nothing says "I'm not mentally unstable" like a good ol' fashioned closet shrine. 1
Author drakewrites Posted March 6, 2013 Author Posted March 6, 2013 Okay cool! Thanks guys. How can I get to know her name? I think my next step is to get her FaceBook to see if she's even available, right? Or her number?
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