She reinitiated contact after almost three months... how do i go about it now?

[happygolucky_guy]

Hi people!

 

Here's my problem and I will keep it short for now but add more info if needed.

 

There was this girl at work and she had a boyfriend. We talked and flirted alot. There was teasing and friendly banter. We mutually enjoyed eachother's company for several months.

 

She started going hot and cold in person and on texts after a date fiasco( i asked her out, she cancelled on purpose, i gave her a hard time about). She wanted my attention after i pulled away though. After a few episodes she told me she wasnt interested in me, i pulled away and once again she chased. Not long after that one day before she was going on a vacation I told her i liked her(i explicitly stated that just to clear any doubts even though she already knew i liked her) from her reaction and body language it was clear she liked it but didnt have a response execpt thanks. i thought i'd give her some time but when she returend she quit her job(she'd been planning on doing that cuz the other job paid better). before she left we had a good talk nice and easy even laughed i told her if and when she was single she should let me know. We exchanged a few texts after that and then she stopped responding and so did i.

 

Almost three months later i get tapped on the shoulder as i'm about to go into a club, i look back and there she is. She says hey! i was pleasently surprised. we exchanged a few pleasentries but both didnt inquire anything. i invited her to go in with me, she stepped in line like she was going in but then said she had to get going. This may have been because i wished her a belated brithday to which she said thanks and asked how i knew and i said i hadnt forgotten. we parted ways but i did text her later that night with something she should have been surprised with but she didnt respond. i guess she was still in the mindset of why i didnt do it earlier.

 

A week later i texted her again today saying we should hangout sometime when she's not in a hurry, to which she soon replied saying she would beat me to death with my own severed arm if she ever saw me again, with a smiley face at the end of course.

 

I dont know how to go about it from here on. Advice please.

[Lillygoose]

Hey, thanks for your post.

 

 

Can I ask was she with this guy throughout all this?

[TaraMaiden]

A week later i texted her again today saying we should hangout sometime when she's not in a hurry, to which she soon replied saying she would beat me to death with my own severed arm if she ever saw me again, with a smiley face at the end of course.

 

I dont know how to go about it from here on. Advice please.

 

 

If you value your arms, I'd leave her alone and let things go stone-dead-cold.

In the meantime, date other ladies, and don't use vindictive behaviour to manipulate and play mind games.

That level of immaturity is enough to turn a raving nympho off.......

[marklarsson]

if she was with a boyfriend this whole time then thats why

[AlexfromBoston]

She sounds immature and is probably screwing with you. She probably likes the attention that you give her. Next time she texts you just respond with "who is this?", if she answers just go NC. If you run into her just be polite and brush her off. She's not wroth your time.