Gingerxr2 Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 For some reason I want to hear from her , stupid I know I want to hear she misses me or atleast that she know I'm alive , and that she's unhappy and not that she out there doing the happy dance with her knight in shinning ! My mate has he thought he saw her yesterday with another monkey boy and she looked happy . I know really this is a good thing that she happy and deserves it I guess , it seems he can do the one thing I couldn't , but a little bit of running on her behalf would if been nice . Anyway enough said off to gym cheers guys xx
xDazedandConfusedx Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 I know the feeling....I really want him to miss me too and contact me. Its been a month since the break up and I know that it will get better I still just feel so sad at the moment!
na49 Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 My ex told me she missed me and wanted to talk to me 2 months ago. I thought it would make me feel better. It made me feel worse. You miss me but don't want to try our relationship again? Well that was 2 months ago, I have my doubts that she misses me at all now. Especially now that we're back at school and she dorms so she's got friends to hang out with everywhere. 1
Author Gingerxr2 Posted February 22, 2013 Author Posted February 22, 2013 What's funny is I re read my thread and it makes no sense ? That's because my mind is in over drive !! I sat here tonight and thought write her a letter , and I say her for an hour and honestly have noting to say , everything just seems irealivent , she won't care or even write back so what's the point , I guess I have to let her go now
Kaza Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 That reason is you're still putting her on that pedestral, and seeing this idealized version of her and the relationship. I felt the same way the first time he broke up with me (now its second time and I broke up with him). And I found out he missed me then. He hung around places I would go hoping to bump into me. But so what? We got back together and it was the same. People don't change, if they don't want to. And even if they wanted to, core things don't change.
Author Gingerxr2 Posted February 23, 2013 Author Posted February 23, 2013 That reason is you're still putting her on that pedestral, and seeing this idealized version of her and the relationship. I felt the same way the first time he broke up with me (now its second time and I broke up with him). And I found out he missed me then. He hung around places I would go hoping to bump into me. But so what? We got back together and it was the same. People don't change, if they don't want to. And even if they wanted to, core things don't change. your right I guess , I look at the relationship as it was perfect and that I would be happy if we went back , deep down I know that it would be the same old but try telling my heart that , I guess I'm just going through the stages and need more comfort , selfpitty sucks
Kaza Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 your right I guess , I look at the relationship as it was perfect and that I would be happy if we went back , deep down I know that it would be the same old but try telling my heart that , I guess I'm just going through the stages and need more comfort , selfpitty sucks I know, BU sucks. Hang in there, and take good care of yourself. You're not alone.
Author Gingerxr2 Posted February 23, 2013 Author Posted February 23, 2013 I know, BU sucks. Hang in there, and take good care of yourself. You're not alone. Really does feel like your alone sometimes though doesn't it ? It's funny how people that are in relationships , ie friends grow bored of giving advice very quickly . Cheers for listening
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