Joby72 Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 after my last post saying i broke the no contact rule my ex told me he really misses me he even sent message on v/day i confessed i missed him also, he said he didn't know what he wanted so i suggested us not speaking untill he did...4 days passed and i sent him a message he sounded happier than the last time we had no contact, so i rang him he was on his way to surrey for a couple of days on business, then i found out he went out to a restaurant with the same girl hes been dating for a few weeks now just 2 days after v/day and the day after he was giving me all this i miss you ****e and i dont know what i want, surely if he didn't know what he wanted then he shouldn't be going out with anyone...... i asked him if she stayed over at his that night he said noooo she only lives 10 mile away she can go and sleep in her own house, he said that relationship is just a casual one....i went on to tell him he was an EUM and carried all the traites of an EUM and was afraid to commit which he was very shocked at but would explain why he couldnt love me or take the relationship to the next level, but when he wakes up in the morning im the first thing he thinks about and he also said im the best he has ever slept with and the best kisser...after the phone call ended he was texting all night and said he was drunk he also said he was so happy that we spoke. the morning after i sent him a message asking why did he say he was so happy we spoke, and i said hes just throwing me bread crumbs and that this messaging is not what i need, and the reason he cant make a decision means its the right decision not to go back..i said i cant fix what i didnt break and that it was down to him....he denied the breadcrumbs saying he was just trying to tell me were he is at and hes still in the fog as to no direction where hes going he said i know you need to know whether to move on and i cant tell you what to do untill i know the way im going you have to move on as you cant wait forever not knowing and hoping..it hurts me to say this but its the only thing you can do is to move on and if i do find myself and what i want i can only hope its not to late... i told him that its a big chance to take but i know what he says comes out of respect regardless as to whether he means it but thanked him for now setting me free and i know what i have to do now and i know it must be hard telling someone you care about to move on but what ever happens we will never be strangers. his last text said that means so much to me..you mean so much to me and now its no contact again im devastated.
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