KS11 Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 He says that it doesn't make him a bad person because he has a preference for thin girls, and that doesn't make them better than me, it just means that they are his preference. I genuinely can't believe people actually say that kind of sh*t and think theres nothing wrong with it. What a complete moron. Solely on the basis of that ridiculously immature comment this guy deserves no more of your time!! Jeeeez what an a**hole!!! 1
Author Own Worst Enemy Posted February 25, 2013 Author Posted February 25, 2013 I genuinely can't believe people actually say that kind of sh*t and think theres nothing wrong with it. What a complete moron. Solely on the basis of that ridiculously immature comment this guy deserves no more of your time!! Jeeeez what an a**hole!!! The problem is that he has me thinking he's right and it's fine that he thinks that way, and it's just that I want more which means I can't accept it. It helps enormously to get reactions from people saying "what a total c0ckmonkey". Thank you!
Sari Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I am a total wreck today; he got back in touch, made me feel like there might be more to it, only to take it away for pathetic reasons. I did say that he thinks like a 20 year old, and that he will look back in years to come and agree with me. But he won't see it that way. He is too busy banging on about how just because he'd rather eat an apple than a banana, an apple isn't a better fruit, it's just his personal taste, and that doesn't make him a bad person. Er. YES IT DOES. (Lucky he doesn't want to eat a banana, given that he is more of a Cadbury's finger kind of guy, if you know what I mean...) Your posts have helped me to feel a lot better, especially today. Hopefully I will get my sense of humour back a bit tomorrow. Sorry you're feeling so down too. I'm sure the cold can't help, but it really is the worst feeling in the world. They are so not worth this. We should get all the local LoveShack girls together and go out drinking! x I too am languishing in heartbreak hotel today (actually since Saturday )... I've had no company all day, stuck in with this effing flu. Is there anything worse than nursing a broken heart with nothing to distract you but the goddamn corrie double bill?? Can't even watch university challenge anymore because it reminds me of him. Shame he dropped out of his degree though, just like he's dropped out of everything in his life. Loser. Right, shall we try to make ourselves feel a bit better? I'm going to think of some qualities I'd like in my next partner that were definitely lacking in my last fool of a bf. 1) AN ABILITY TO SHARE FEELINGS. I'm sick of being with guys who bottle it all up then run for the hills, leaving me completely shell-shocked. 2) LOTS OF EMPATHY. Too many times I've been dicked about by stupid guys who act on every whim with no care whatsoever for my feelings or my poor mental health. Who the hell thinks it's ok to come crawling back on Christmas Eve only to run away again on Boxing Day?? Not someone who's thinking of me, that's for sure. 3) PUTS ME FIRST, OR AT LEAST ON A PAR!! Sick of my needs and emotions being shoved in a box while my bf carries on starring in the show of his own life! I want at least a co-starring role! 4) THINKS IT'S GREAT THAT I HAVE SUCH A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR AND QUICK BRAIN. I'm never going out with a man who is threatened by my intelligence again.... Don't correct me on Alan Partridge indeed Ooh I feel a teeny bit better... Well enough to order a Chinese anyway! You want to give it a go...? Where do you live btw? You're so obviously British, all fart and no poo
Author Own Worst Enemy Posted February 25, 2013 Author Posted February 25, 2013 (edited) (to make my day I am still at work catching up on all the work I missed from crying in the toilets...) I too am languishing in heartbreak hotel today (actually since Saturday )... I've had no company all day, stuck in with this effing flu. Is there anything worse than nursing a broken heart with nothing to distract you but the goddamn corrie double bill?? Can't even watch university challenge anymore because it reminds me of him. Shame he dropped out of his degree though, just like he's dropped out of everything in his life. Loser. Right, shall we try to make ourselves feel a bit better? I'm going to think of some qualities I'd like in my next partner that were definitely lacking in my last fool of a bf. 1) AN ABILITY TO SHARE FEELINGS. I'm sick of being with guys who bottle it all up then run for the hills, leaving me completely shell-shocked. 2) LOTS OF EMPATHY. Too many times I've been dicked about by stupid guys who act on every whim with no care whatsoever for my feelings or my poor mental health. Who the hell thinks it's ok to come crawling back on Christmas Eve only to run away again on Boxing Day?? Not someone who's thinking of me, that's for sure. 3) PUTS ME FIRST, OR AT LEAST ON A PAR!! Sick of my needs and emotions being shoved in a box while my bf carries on starring in the show of his own life! I want at least a co-starring role! 4) THINKS IT'S GREAT THAT I HAVE SUCH A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOUR AND QUICK BRAIN. I'm never going out with a man who is threatened by my intelligence again.... Don't correct me on Alan Partridge indeed Ooh I feel a teeny bit better... Well enough to order a Chinese anyway! You want to give it a go...? Where do you live btw? You're so obviously British, all fart and no poo I know, there is nothing worse. Your mind feels like a squirrel stuck in a trap, rushing round brooding on the same things. I am so sick of writing angry speeches to him in my head! Although to be fair I said a lot of them by email today. But still. I am sick of it. Hmm, Corrie, really? Surely things aren't THAT bad.... I want your points too, please. Mine are exactly the same. Especially number 1. And especially numbers 2, 3 and 4. What a pair of total t0ssers. I would add (and I bet you agree) 5. NO MORE ISSUES Issues are boring. Things that are difficult are not fun for me. I just want a nice ordinary boyfriend that I can complain at because he drags me back from the pub to watch "Match of the Day" and who has nice normal friends. 6. NO MORE MR SHALLOW T.WAT Appreciate what is really important in a girl and what you've got when you've got it. Don't use your obsession with being hawt and watching pr0n to give yourself a reason for ending things. That will never be a good reason. Ever. 7. SELF-CONFIDENCE BUT NOT ARROGANCE I want someone to look after me for a change. Not someone who has me in a weird mummy/big sister role and who comes crying to me when he is upset about something. And by something, I mean "everything". 8. AN ADULT Yes please. Haha, I will PM you on where I live - I have a weird paranoia that the ex will find this site, although frankly that would interrupt his browsing pr0n and dating websites, and there's already enough incriminating stuff on here........ x Edited February 25, 2013 by Own Worst Enemy
LostGirl11 Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I am a total wreck today; he got back in touch, made me feel like there might be more to it, only to take it away for pathetic reasons. I did say that he thinks like a 20 year old, and that he will look back in years to come and agree with me. But he won't see it that way. He is too busy banging on about how just because he'd rather eat an apple than a banana, an apple isn't a better fruit, it's just his personal taste, and that doesn't make him a bad person. Er. YES IT DOES. (Lucky he doesn't want to eat a banana, given that he is more of a Cadbury's finger kind of guy, if you know what I mean...) Your posts have helped me to feel a lot better, especially today. Hopefully I will get my sense of humour back a bit tomorrow. Sorry you're feeling so down too. I'm sure the cold can't help, but it really is the worst feeling in the world. They are so not worth this. We should get all the local LoveShack girls together and go out drinking! x I'm up for drinkies! No phones allowed!
Sari Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 I'm up for drinkies! No phones allowed! Ooh, where do you live then LostGirl? X
Sari Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Kent. You? Bet we're miles away! Nope, London girl here! Let me know if you fancy joining us for a drink one night see, it's not all about those pesky men!! Sistaaaas are doin' it etc blah x 1
LostGirl11 Posted February 25, 2013 Posted February 25, 2013 Nope, London girl here! Let me know if you fancy joining us for a drink one night see, it's not all about those pesky men!! Sistaaaas are doin' it etc blah x Oooo, London girls, how amazeballs. A night out is in order. No crying, just too many cocktails and a little dance please Defo up for it.
Author Own Worst Enemy Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 I can't stop crying about that loser today!
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