Searchformeaning Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 (edited) Okay let me apologize ahead of time because this is a long story So, there is this girl I have spent a lot of time with and really care about. I'm just so happy when I see her, and I feel so comfortable around her and feel like I can act like myself and just run with it. I have pretty bad social anxiety, so that's not a common feeling for me Well, anyways I didn't make a move before because she had a boyfriend for a while, so I didn't really want to be the guy to mess with that. But just a couple of weeks ago they broke up. Of course I was thinking that this was my chance to tell her everything, but most people I spoke to about it told me I should give her some space and time for a little bit so she could figure herself out. "You don't want to be rebound sex" they say. I figured they had a point, so I backed off and just continued being a friend, being supportive of her when she needed it, going out to lunch, watching tv with her, cooking with her and whatnot. So the other day she says to me she wants to go do something fun next week. We never really solidified what we were going to do exactly but I was happy to hear that from her, and was excited for whatever was coming, and was planning on making my move when we do it. Well, bump that, because today I found out she slept with some guy, from her roommate. I don't who he is or how she met him all I know is there was a guy and they had sex, and they were giggling a lot after it. It hurt me when I heard this I totally don't blame her, I know as a single person she's absolutely entitled to that. And I know she's never been my girlfriend so there's no attachment to me. I'm mostly upset with myself for waiting so long and I don't know if I should give up any hope of being with her. I'm just deeply upset and heartbroken, and I feel like I'll never get a good chance to let her know how I feel if she really likes this guy. It's really eating me up I know I'm being mess, I know I should move on from this but it's hard for me because she's been a frequent part of my recent life. I haven't spoken to her since I heard, so I don't know what's really going on. So should I give up on this or should I give it a real shot? Edited February 21, 2013 by Searchformeaning
Author Searchformeaning Posted February 21, 2013 Author Posted February 21, 2013 Sorry I realized this is the wrong forum
Ladybugz Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 sex attach people to each other most of the time. thats why its made only for married people. so she may be more attached to that guy now. talk to her and see what she is about, cause you heard a gossip at the end so... even thou i would not invest in her if its true, cause her feelings are not with you. otherwise sleeping around couldn't be in her list. if you choose to go for her still, im afraid this could be a hell of a ride , her messing with both of you and telling you its not like that etc.
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