brookebb Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 basically i did not know him before class started.. 3 weeks ago, the first day of class, this guy comes in and sits right next to me, even though there were many other seats open.. it takes him like 5 minutes to strike up a conversation, but he does.. ever since then, he has been sitting next to me.. he is nice.. he doesn't really flirt (at least i don't think so).. but i have always found it bizzare how he sat right next to me the first day of class without knowing me.. everyone else who was in the class at the time, were scattered.. no one was sitting next to each other.. the class did not start for 15 mins.. anyways a few days ago he asked me if i would ever want to get dinner or something outside of class.. i said yes and then we exchanged numbers.. today in class he asked me if i can do dinner tonight.. i went to dinner with him at the dining hall in our college. i cant tell if he likes me. he was being nice, but he was not really complimenting me. is it possible he only likes me as a friend? considering all the details i gave you... on a side note, why do you sat right next to me the first day of class when there were hundreds of seats open? we did not know each other.
todreaminblue Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 basically i did not know him before class started.. 3 weeks ago, the first day of class, this guy comes in and sits right next to me, even though there were many other seats open.. it takes him like 5 minutes to strike up a conversation, but he does.. ever since then, he has been sitting next to me.. he is nice.. he doesn't really flirt (at least i don't think so).. but i have always found it bizzare how he sat right next to me the first day of class without knowing me.. everyone else who was in the class at the time, were scattered.. no one was sitting next to each other.. the class did not start for 15 mins.. anyways a few days ago he asked me if i would ever want to get dinner or something outside of class.. i said yes and then we exchanged numbers.. today in class he asked me if i can do dinner tonight.. i went to dinner with him at the dining hall in our college. i cant tell if he likes me. he was being nice, but he was not really complimenting me. is it possible he only likes me as a friend? considering all the details i gave you... on a side note, why do you sat right next to me the first day of class when there were hundreds of seats open? we did not know each other. yes it sounds like he likes you he is taking it slow maybe......deb 1
laaddict Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 (edited) basically i did not know him before class started.. 3 weeks ago, the first day of class, this guy comes in and sits right next to me, even though there were many other seats open.. it takes him like 5 minutes to strike up a conversation, but he does.. ever since then, he has been sitting next to me.. he is nice.. he doesn't really flirt (at least i don't think so).. but i have always found it bizzare how he sat right next to me the first day of class without knowing me.. everyone else who was in the class at the time, were scattered.. no one was sitting next to each other.. the class did not start for 15 mins.. anyways a few days ago he asked me if i would ever want to get dinner or something outside of class.. i said yes and then we exchanged numbers.. today in class he asked me if i can do dinner tonight.. i went to dinner with him at the dining hall in our college. i cant tell if he likes me. he was being nice, but he was not really complimenting me. is it possible he only likes me as a friend? considering all the details i gave you... on a side note, why do you sat right next to me the first day of class when there were hundreds of seats open? we did not know each other. I would do the same thing as this guy. The reason is because... I want a girl who is traditional, I would not want to have sex with a girl the first day I met her, let alone the first few months. I want a woman that will raise my children, that will be there for me and for them. A sane, warm blooded, emotional woman. Virginity would be nice, I have mine too. A woman who wants to stay home and be with her family rather than her friends. This guy sounds pretty smart, hopefully he is kind too. He is showing you respect. What would you rather have a) a guy who respects you and loves you, because only a Man can actually love and only a man shows respect. b) someone who does you until he gets tired of your body and moves on to the next body. If your choice is b) move on, he will not fulfill you, he will drive you insane, and do him the favor of not wasting his time on you. Hopefully he will show even more intellect and understand that you are not for him. But then again, I could be wrong because I didnt see this happen with my own eyes and I do not know everything, which is a disclaimer everyone should put at the bottom of their suggestions. Good luck Edited February 21, 2013 by laaddict
laaddict Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 Maybe I wasnt clear enough though, he clearly likes you, based on info given.
Eternal Sunshine Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 He clearly likes you, in fact you guys are already dating 1
JennaMax Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 sounds like he's a decent guy...so called players would sing you all praises, just to get you in and do a "slum-dunk" on you real quick. Don't be beat up about it, real, solid relationships grow out of friendships:) so better start off like that.
Eddie Edirol Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 Youre waiting for him to compliment you, said he isnt flirting, but are you complimenting him? Are you flirting with him? Possibly the reason he isnt making it obvious to you, is because you arent making it obvious that you like him. If you stay aloof and cold, he isnt going to think you like him. Give him sone OVERT signs, not the subtle ones. He might be like many guys that cannot read subtle hints. Take a risk, see what happens, dont worry about rejection. You cant both be playing it cold, one of you has to take the chance.
SJC2008 Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 This is your 3rd+ post about this guy. Did you respond to my take the last time? One thing you should "condition" yourself to is that not all men are going to jump on a woman the first chance they get. So you shouldn't automatically put a slow mover in the not intereste/virging category. It could be either one of those things but we don't know yet... SO, the fact that he sat next to you when there were other seats available and that he asked you to dinner shows interest in my book. Relax, give him time to progress things!
iKING Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 He's interested to some extent obviously. Just take it easy and enjoy, try not to over analyze. Go with the flow and see where it goes!
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