I'm going to miss you

[nada2013]

I'm going to miss you, every single word you said and every smile you ever showed me, I'm going to miss them, I still wish that we didn't end up this way but we did and I feel bad about it, because I used to hope we would have a future together, but no, we don't.

 

I used to believe that what we had was special, so special that only you and I could feel it, that other people would never have it and that we would be together forever but I was wrong, we were wrong. I wanted to protect you from all the pain that other people could bring you and I just wanted to give you a very good life, I wanted to be the best for you, but the best was not enough even tough I tried it so hard

 

We had a lot of 'first-times' together and I'm glad they were with you, but still it eats a little in my head, because I wanted you to be the only one for all time, live my life with you and one day die with you, but I can only say that it was a silly dream, my dreams never come true

 

Everything we've been through, all things we've shared, the long chats and all the good and bad stories, the imaginations and dreams, I'll keep them and remember you always, I remember what you meant for me and what love can be when you are with the right person, you know that I'll miss you and that you will always have a special place in my heart, I hope it will be the same for you

 

You must never feel guilty about something that happened because in fact I wanted to love, I loved to love you, and I loved every bit of the story.

 

But does it mean that it is the end, It is the end, life is a mystery and so was our story and even tough you gave me a cold goodbye I still want to end it with a wish, a sincere wish I wish you happiness, and a wonderful life, and I wish your wife will take care of you as I would.

 

Thank you very very much for being such a friend. You brought so much good to me, you gave strength when I need it, You are a friend you can tell everything to, can have fun with and have good moments. May god Bless you.

[habs53]

I'm going to miss you, every single word you said and every smile you ever showed me, I'm going to miss them, I still wish that we didn't end up this way but we did and I feel bad about it, because I used to hope we would have a future together, but no, we don't.

 

I used to believe that what we had was special, so special that only you and I could feel it, that other people would never have it and that we would be together forever but I was wrong, we were wrong. I wanted to protect you from all the pain that other people could bring you and I just wanted to give you a very good life, I wanted to be the best for you, but the best was not enough even tough I tried it so hard

 

We had a lot of 'first-times' together and I'm glad they were with you, but still it eats a little in my head, because I wanted you to be the only one for all time, live my life with you and one day die with you, but I can only say that it was a silly dream, my dreams never come true

 

Everything we've been through, all things we've shared, the long chats and all the good and bad stories, the imaginations and dreams, I'll keep them and remember you always, I remember what you meant for me and what love can be when you are with the right person, you know that I'll miss you and that you will always have a special place in my heart, I hope it will be the same for you

 

You must never feel guilty about something that happened because in fact I wanted to love, I loved to love you, and I loved every bit of the story.

 

But does it mean that it is the end, It is the end, life is a mystery and so was our story and even tough you gave me a cold goodbye I still want to end it with a wish, a sincere wish I wish you happiness, and a wonderful life, and I wish your wife will take care of you as I would.

 

Thank you very very much for being such a friend. You brought so much good to me, you gave strength when I need it, You are a friend you can tell everything to, can have fun with and have good moments. May god Bless you.

 

Very well written. Life a a big learning experience and always learn and progress from it.

[M30USA]

That is very beautiful, I read every word of it.

[Toddbt12y1]

This was extremely beautiful. Utterly well said...yet...sad. Yet...hopeful. amazing.....though it's your first post on here...impressive

[coldndistant]

I know you are thankful for this love. Many never will experience it. I'm sorry it's gone. Best of luck to you.

[Soxfaninfl]

I'm going to miss you, every single word you said and every smile you ever showed me, I'm going to miss them, I still wish that we didn't end up this way but we did and I feel bad about it, because I used to hope we would have a future together, but no, we don't.

 

I used to believe that what we had was special, so special that only you and I could feel it, that other people would never have it and that we would be together forever but I was wrong, we were wrong. I wanted to protect you from all the pain that other people could bring you and I just wanted to give you a very good life, I wanted to be the best for you, but the best was not enough even tough I tried it so hard

 

We had a lot of 'first-times' together and I'm glad they were with you, but still it eats a little in my head, because I wanted you to be the only one for all time, live my life with you and one day die with you, but I can only say that it was a silly dream, my dreams never come true

 

Everything we've been through, all things we've shared, the long chats and all the good and bad stories, the imaginations and dreams, I'll keep them and remember you always, I remember what you meant for me and what love can be when you are with the right person, you know that I'll miss you and that you will always have a special place in my heart, I hope it will be the same for you

 

You must never feel guilty about something that happened because in fact I wanted to love, I loved to love you, and I loved every bit of the story.

 

But does it mean that it is the end, It is the end, life is a mystery and so was our story and even tough you gave me a cold goodbye I still want to end it with a wish, a sincere wish I wish you happiness, and a wonderful life, and I wish your wife will take care of you as I would.

 

Thank you very very much for being such a friend. You brought so much good to me, you gave strength when I need it, You are a friend you can tell everything to, can have fun with and have good moments. May god Bless you.

 

Life's cruel lesson that love doesn't last forever for a lot of us. Only a few are

lucky to find a love that will last forever.

[dejame]

Enjoyed reading that message. So many of us had the same wishes for our relationships and somewhere along the line, the communication with our partners went haywire. ...... At least for me this was true.

 

We married after an on and off relationship of 9 years with a serious break in-between. We had so many good things, but the bad invaded and grew like mold on cheese turning our relationship into something unfit for consumption.

 

I tried to talk with him and it just angered him. He thought married couples should not have any conflict and, if they did, they shouldn't be married. My thoughts were conflict exists in most relationships and it is how you handle the conflict that matters. Ignore the small upsets and deal with the big ones.

 

His refusal to address the issues and the need I had to resolve them caused a huge loss of affinity between us. Both stuck in our hurt and upset.

 

 

Now, we are getting a divorce after years of marriage. Short of totally ignoring or suppressing any upset I felt within my marriage and acting like everything was fine, I'm not sure what I could have done to change the outcome. But, I am still very sad and feel such a big loss for the many good things that have been lost with the relationship.

 

It just seems like too many marriages end when with some effort to understand and address each partner's needs and concerns, they could be rehabilitated. Why does it have to end in an impasse?

[M30USA]

Why does it have to end in an impasse?

 

Jesus said:

 

"Because of the hardness of your heart, Moses permitted you to divorce your wives [or spouses]; but from the beginning it has not been this way."

[dejame]

I like to work within our present time frame. Past cultures have vastly different societal norms especially regarding the treatment of women.