Going steadyy.

[love1336x]

I been dating this guy for about three months. He's 18, i'm 22.

I had couples relationships before him. (2 yrs, and the other one about a year and three months)

 

For him, this is FIRST true longest relationship. lol.

 

My issues with him can be with the paying, and him not sharing ANYTHING of HIS.

 

Sorry, but with my other relationships, men would have chopped off my hand if i reached for my purse. I grew up thinking not to paid, so maybe it was wrong of me to assumed for him to paid for dates.

 

He does paid, but he doesn't enjoy it.

How do I know?

1.) He will throw it at my face.

We can be talking about cats, dogs, and he be like "REMEMBER THE TIME I PAID FOR BREAKFAST?"

 

I ask for a peice of gum once, and his replied. "Why? buy your own damn gum...I paid for the movies."

 

2.) I can't touch any of his THINGS. He will LITERALLY flips. I once touch his book, and he said to me, "Why are you touching my book? Can you please put it the f*ck down?"

 

Ugh! I am soo ANNOYED. I don't mind doing 50/50. I'll suck it up.

But, him flipping if I ask for a drink of his water, or touch his phone. Just BUGGING me OUT.

It can be a little sip of water, his reply will always be, "Get YOUR own"

 

I feel this is wrong because I NEVER do this to him.

 

He pays for dates, but I give him gas money. If he stays over my house I give him food, buy his favorite drinks. I am also putting money into this relationship.

 

I feel maybe it's his age. Maybe because I am his first real girlfriend, but I am clueless how to talk to him without being judgemental, or making him feel bad. :/

[Robman9911]

Thats part of an adult relationship. Deciding if and when each partner pays.

 

If you assume the man always pays, you have to find a guy that agrees with that. I dont mind paying but if she pays part of the time we can do more things.

 

But he shouldn't make you feel bad or bring it up at a later time. You're adults discuss it and if you cant come to agreement, its going to cause a rift continuously.

[Drseussgrrl]

Get your own? Are you dating a five-year-old?

[MidwestUSA]

You're worried about making him feel bed? That is the least of your trouble. This is not something that's going to get better. Get used to it or, better yet, get out.