Chloe1980 Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 For those who dont know my story, I dated this guy for 2 months but he mostly used me for sex, knowing that I had strong feelings for him. I tried to go NC last week, but fortunately I met him this morning. I say fortunately because now I know who he really is. He told me he's in love with another woman, that he cannot love me. I asked him to said that he doesnt want to see me anymore. He said "Can I said to you I want to be alone?" :S When I was leaving I told him to said me bye, he said "I cant...well...bye!" And I left. He knows I love him, I'feeling miserable, not be loved is the worst feeling ever. Then, 20 minutes later, he wrote me several text messages, saying that he's feeling bad, that he's sorry he ruined the day, blah blah. I answer on text: "It's OK". and he didnt reply anymore. This was 4 hours ago. I really need to move on, he shouldnt have texted me, because I feel more confused, but on the other hand now I know the truth. He didnt look into my eyes, he smiled a couple of times while I was hearthbroken, and his cel phone was all the time sounding that he had text messages while he was with me. He was selfish, greedy, and a coward. I need to move on, I am starting to hate him, and I am freaked out about hiv as we've had unprotected sex before. He told me hes results are negative, but who knows, I cant believe him a word. I realize the class of person he is, a total bulls***, but not for not loving me (that's ok, not everybody has to love me!) but for keeping me around knowing my feelings, and using me for sex, even though I looked for him all the time. I think it is much more honest to tell the other person the truth, so we can be free to move on. Im free to move on now, I just dont want him to contact me anymore because it's too hurtful. I dont think he will though.
AlexfromBoston Posted February 21, 2013 Posted February 21, 2013 Chloe, don't get too wrapped around the axle with the HIV worries...I am sure you're ok. Go get tested before you engage in sex with another man. And you are sooooooo LUCKY you only invested 2 months on this a-hole. He doesn't deserve you. Don't EVER respond to another message from him and block him from your facebook, twitter, phone, etc. Please, don't give in and text him. If you feel the need to text or call him, go for a run or call a friend. Good luck sweetie.
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