TaraMaiden Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 Yeah... and I'll be carrying her clubs for her......
Simon Phoenix Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 Yes, you are right, a normal person would reflect but he never learns from anything or admits anything. Even if when he got that text and he was thinking but procures I like her as a person, he never in a million years would text that back. When he silent treatments me, it's usually just about power. It's to get me to text again for answers. Which I haven't and won't be. This has happened so many times I know the pattern. It's good that not only am I gone but he is completely isolated up their from ppl he knows so anything he feels about losing an ego boost will be doubled What does he have to learn? He's doing exactly what he wants to when he wants to do it? You are projecting your want for him to treat you well on to him. There's nothing for him to learn because, quite frankly, you don't mean anything to him. There's no huge life lesson for him -- you are the one who needs to learn.
Author mishy Posted February 23, 2013 Author Posted February 23, 2013 What does he have to learn? He's doing exactly what he wants to when he wants to do it? You are projecting your want for him to treat you well on to him. There's nothing for him to learn because, quite frankly, you don't mean anything to him. There's no huge life lesson for him -- you are the one who needs to learn. No he actually will learn. Maybe not in a month, a year or even 5 years. He will learn when he is 65 and all alone because of his horrible treatment of women. When he is 65 and his last woman has left him because of emotional abuse, he'll be there all alone, unable to get it up anymore, and then he will realise that the way he treats people has repercussions and there is such a thing as karma. I believe he has always treated women the same, and always will, I don't think I was an anomaly.
Simon Phoenix Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 No he actually will learn. Maybe not in a month, a year or even 5 years. He will learn when he is 65 and all alone because of his horrible treatment of women. When he is 65 and his last woman left him because of emotional abuse, he'll be there all alone, unable to get it up anymore, and then he will realise that the way he treats people has repercussions and there is such a thing as karma. I believe he has always treated women the same, and always will, I don't think I was an anomaly. Meh, I don't necessarily agree. And you shouldn't waste time thinking about crap like this.
Author mishy Posted February 23, 2013 Author Posted February 23, 2013 Meh, I don't necessarily agree. And you shouldn't waste time thinking about crap like this. I haven't really been thinking about it much as you can't ever know what another person thinks or learns. He is too full of himself to ever reflect anyway
Simon Phoenix Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 I haven't really been thinking about it much as you can't ever know what another person thinks or learns. He is too full of himself to ever reflect anyway Well if he won't reflect then you are wasting your time thinking about it. Not your concern. You should be moving on.
Author mishy Posted February 23, 2013 Author Posted February 23, 2013 I am glad I texted him that i know he doesnt like me very much or have sny respect for me. I said in a factual manner, not accusing or bitter, just factual I want to be able to look back on this one day and just not care.
Author mishy Posted February 24, 2013 Author Posted February 24, 2013 I had a great big crying session last night, I must have been holding it in
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