E.L.B Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 I have no relationship experience which is a lame excuse for my failings, but I make the same mistakes over and over. The number one being drunk spam texting which essentially eliminates all forms of messaging as a way of communication. I had no issues with asking someone to come for a drink or invite someone out to a social function... I just just act really creepy and desperate at random times (always via a text of fb msg). I have learned to keep my phone away more recently when out drinking to avoid this problem. anyway... The point of this post is to get some advice on the next stages of building a relationship with a girl who I haven't completely ruined my chances with yet. I'm 21 and she's 17. If you needed to know. I only met her when I started working with her in a retail shop in December, but we got on really well. I'm not saying she's interested but I know she likes me as she would go out of her way to make conversation. Now then. I was dismissed from work and she didn't turn up to my last shift (Friday 8th Feb) cause was ill, so I was unable to ask her on a date/casual event. I added her on fb on the saturday and sent her a msg saying I had left work and she missed my last shift; as usual I don't get a reply. I went into the shop last week to pick up some clothes and she still seemed really eager to talk but I kinda forgot about asking her anything cause I didn't realize she'd be there. I know where she works and what her shifts are. It's not too stalker-ish to turn up during these times and make conversation. Is she likely to know that I've only decided to go in the shop at that time because I knew she would be there? Will that have any effect on anything between she and I? Thats the part I'm kind of worried about... Any comments are welcome. Much thanks.
Apolodor Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 You sound like a serial stalker, mate. Also, don't you think you are trying to take advantage of this young & innocent girl?? Can't you find someone of your age to date? For God's sake, you are only 21, there will be plenty of other opportunities to meet great females.
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