gaius Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 (edited) I'm dating a cougar right now. Most older women take a little longer to woo since a lot of them are a little uncomfortable with the age difference. I don't know where this perception comes from that they're somehow harder up and if you can't get laid with your own age group they're the ones to settle for. If you really are interested just treat them like any other woman you want. There's no special formula. Dressing well and expanding your interests beyond your own generation might help though. Edited February 22, 2013 by gaius 1
gaius Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 It helps I know who The Browns are when trolling the senior center for dates. 1
Emissary Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 I have no experience in regard to older women, but you seem to be targeting them because you feel inadequate towards younger girls closer to your age. Let me just tell you this, to win a girl over it takes confidence and "game", neither of which are instinctive. These are attributes you MUST learn yourself. You can read and read all about it, but you have to get some fieldwork in to really become adept at it. Just start talking to girls, literally, that's all you have to do. Approach a girl, say anything at all, just keep the conversation going as best possible. The first girls you approach will not likely be wooed by you due to awkwardness, so don't regard them as potential dates, makes it easier to practice on them. In fact, don't consider any girl to be a potential date before you start talking to them, it's just not a good way to start an interaction out. Once you've met some basic criteria, it's time to make a move. You have to have learned a bit about her and shared a bit about yourself, she has to be smiling and she has to be looking you in the eye. End the conversation before you run into an awkward pause or before she ends it herself, it has to end on your terms. Say you've got to run, but offer to give her your number, if you're feeling ballsy enough, propose a coffee meeting as well. Also use dominant words when proposing a date of any kind. There are no maybes, coulds, or even a question if she would like to, you SHOULD go for coffee together.
Emilia Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 Thanks to this post, Just a poster, and 2sure. All proving my post!! OP you have to accept that your not even in the running with 30-40 year old ladies that are established. I don't know why you think all women feel the same way as you do. I've never dated an 18 year-old but my last great love was 21 and he is one of the most inspiring men I know. Amazing strength of character, smart, good fun, very clear values and views. Much more so than a lot of 30 year-old men I know. Writing people off based on their age is ridiculous. Yes clearly a long term relationship is not likely to be on the horizon but those established 30 or 40 year-olds might not want one? I don't really understand why you ladies think you are qualified to speak for everyone in your age range.
2sure Posted February 22, 2013 Posted February 22, 2013 I don't know why you think all women feel the same way as you do. I've never dated an 18 year-old but my last great love was 21 and he is one of the most inspiring men I know. Amazing strength of character, smart, good fun, very clear values and views. Much more so than a lot of 30 year-old men I know. Writing people off based on their age is ridiculous. Yes clearly a long term relationship is not likely to be on the horizon but those established 30 or 40 year-olds might not want one? I don't really understand why you ladies think you are qualified to speak for everyone in your age range. I never speak for everyone. It's called a conversation.
Apolodor Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 Your post is so wrong, for a number of different reasons. You must have beeen watching too much porn lately..... If girls your own age don't find you interesting enough to give you a chance, what makes you think that these women you call MILFS will?
Author MightyHeracross Posted February 24, 2013 Author Posted February 24, 2013 Your post is so wrong, for a number of different reasons. You must have beeen watching too much porn lately..... If girls your own age don't find you interesting enough to give you a chance, what makes you think that these women you call MILFS will? Im not going after MILFs as a consolation prize bud. Ive just been insanely attracted to them for a while. Its not that girls my age don't think I'm interesting enough, its just that I don't put myself out there enough. Im way too shy.
Author MightyHeracross Posted February 24, 2013 Author Posted February 24, 2013 I don't know why you think all women feel the same way as you do. I've never dated an 18 year-old but my last great love was 21 and he is one of the most inspiring men I know. Amazing strength of character, smart, good fun, very clear values and views. Much more so than a lot of 30 year-old men I know. Writing people off based on their age is ridiculous. Yes clearly a long term relationship is not likely to be on the horizon but those established 30 or 40 year-olds might not want one? I don't really understand why you ladies think you are qualified to speak for everyone in your age range. Thank you. I really am sick of people writing me off cuz of my age. Its not right. I need to find a girl, and thats why I'm here. not to hear negative advice!
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