frederickkk Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 she has told a mutual friend this weekend she doesn't want a relationship. nothing else said. no mention of me. no mention if shes over it.
geegirl Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 she has told a mutual friend this weekend she doesn't want a relationship. nothing else said. no mention of me. no mention if shes over it. She never wanted a relationship even when she was with you. She just wanted sex. No mention of you because she does not have you in her mind. No mention of whether she is over it because she was never in it with you to begin with.
Author frederickkk Posted February 20, 2013 Author Posted February 20, 2013 She never wanted a relationship even when she was with you. She just wanted sex. No mention of you because she does not have you in her mind. No mention of whether she is over it because she was never in it with you to begin with. 1. wrong. 2. she was in a party, on my doorstep approx 100 yards away, that i was asked to dj, knowing full well i might be there (having phoned the copshop on me previously). 3. possible, but from the various things she did in the relationship, and the amount of stuff i have here, only slight possibility, in fact no possibility, that's gut instinct.
TaraMaiden Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 The fact that a) she doesn't want a relationship, and b) you weren't even mentioned, - Is now, surely, sufficient to make you see that you are no longer anywhere near her radar, let alone dropped off it. Besides, Radars don't commonly register outer-spatial objects. Which, in her emotions, is where you are. Face it - you are most definitely history. (And this really isn't an "update". We all knew this already, so honestly? This isn't news.)
H3Drvr Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 If your multiple, redundant and pointless posts are any indication of who you really are....I can understand why she dumped you. In fact, why even post questions here when you end up doing your own thing anyway?
geegirl Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 (edited) 1. wrong. 2. she was in a party, on my doorstep approx 100 yards away, that i was asked to dj, knowing full well i might be there (having phoned the copshop on me previously). 3. possible, but from the various things she did in the relationship, and the amount of stuff i have here, only slight possibility, in fact no possibility, that's gut instinct. 1. Wrong?? Your words below from your first thread dated August 19th. After this thread, there was no more relationship even with interaction. She wanted sex. "im 25. she is 19. been together two years. wanted everything with her. it was rocky the past year. she goes on holiday for 6 weeks after inviting me out, i couldn't go, exams. she comes back, wants to move on. prob experienced single life out there. i try everything, but nothing. she doesn't want me to contact her. wants me to move on. thinks i can't change as a person. i'm not a bad guy. i suggest doing activities with her, she does them with others. she wanted sex last week, but no relationship. i offer her a holiday, sex but no relationship, she thinks i will be there for her when she is sick whilst at uni...?" 2. She was 100 yards away and didn't take a step closer. Enough said. 3. Wake up. Edited February 20, 2013 by geegirl
Author frederickkk Posted February 20, 2013 Author Posted February 20, 2013 If your multiple, redundant and pointless posts are any indication of who you really are....I can understand why she dumped you. In fact, why even post questions here when you end up doing your own thing anyway? like to keep you all informed of the situation. and its my source of letting it out. and what is stopping you from doing your own thing? society norms? i guess the release for you is trolling on my post.
Author frederickkk Posted February 20, 2013 Author Posted February 20, 2013 The fact that a) she doesn't want a relationship, and b) you weren't even mentioned, - Is now, surely, sufficient to make you see that you are no longer anywhere near her radar, let alone dropped off it. Besides, Radars don't commonly register outer-spatial objects. Which, in her emotions, is where you are. Face it - you are most definitely history. (And this really isn't an "update". We all knew this already, so honestly? This isn't news.) im not history.
geegirl Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 im not history. History, Fred. Seven months have gone by and you have nothing to show for that is even remotely close to any sort of positive attention from her. Not even a Merry X'mas. Not even a Happy New Year. Not even a Happy Valentines day. Not even a Have a Good Life. Not even a crummy How Are You? Even your emails have been ignored, filtered, spammed, junked, etc. It's sad to see you do this to yourself. Most people would be well on their way to recovery and seeing life with much more optimism. But you're hear still talking about the same thing, nothing.
Author frederickkk Posted February 20, 2013 Author Posted February 20, 2013 1. Wrong?? Your words below from your first thread dated August 19th. After this thread, there was no more relationship even with interaction. She wanted sex. "im 25. she is 19. been together two years. wanted everything with her. it was rocky the past year. she goes on holiday for 6 weeks after inviting me out, i couldn't go, exams. she comes back, wants to move on. prob experienced single life out there. i try everything, but nothing. she doesn't want me to contact her. wants me to move on. thinks i can't change as a person. i'm not a bad guy. i suggest doing activities with her, she does them with others. she wanted sex last week, but no relationship. i offer her a holiday, sex but no relationship, she thinks i will be there for her when she is sick whilst at uni...?" 2. She was 100 yards away and didn't take a step closer. Enough said. 3. Wake up. 2. with her sister. 3. yeah i probably should. that involves a 3 month jaunt in thailand in the gym in the sun.
Zammo25 Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Ignore all the abuse Fred. You will get there. Stay strong.
TaraMaiden Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 weird thread.. Oh pray tell... in what way.....?
geegirl Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Ignore all the abuse Fred. You will get there. Stay strong. It's not abuse, Zammo. Abuse is when you continuously inflict pain upon yourself even when people are trying to instill in every which way possible the reality of the situation. If you go back and read his threads from 7 months ago, the content and mindset has not changed one bit.
Author frederickkk Posted February 20, 2013 Author Posted February 20, 2013 weird thread.. weirdest fking relationship mate.
geegirl Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 2. with her sister. 3. yeah i probably should. that involves a 3 month jaunt in thailand in the gym in the sun. So what if she was with her sister? She could have stepped away. Please don't make ridiculous excuses. Yes, please go to Thailand. How about you try something different? If this mindset and path has not given you any results, do something different. Take a chance and branch out. Places to see, people to meet, experiences to encounter...you can't live your life sitting and moping about something that bears you zero fruit.
geegirl Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 weirdest fking relationship mate. There is no relationship!!! She broke up with you. She ended it with you. She wanted to be single. It was over 7 months ago. Just like any other relationship, it ended for its own reasons. Stop this.
TaraMaiden Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 It's. Not. A. Relationship. It's Over. There Is No More. The only place the dregs of any kind of connection still exists is entirely in your mind. Please - Fred - Quit now. Look, You and Zammo both live in the UK. Why don't you guys PM, meet up and cry on each others' shoulders? maybe you're the kind of mutual support you need. But here? You're neither of you getting anywhere..... are you? 1
Zammo25 Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 It's. Not. A. Relationship. It's Over. There Is No More. The only place the dregs of any kind of connection still exists is entirely in your mind. Please - Fred - Quit now. Look, You and Zammo both live in the UK. Why don't you guys PM, meet up and cry on each others' shoulders? maybe you're the kind of mutual support you need. But here? You're neither of you getting anywhere..... are you? Patronsing and spiteful but nothing that is not to be expected.
TaraMaiden Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 BTW....I am "ignoring" Zammo. Much better for all concerned, i think.
geegirl Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Patronsing and spiteful but nothing that is not to be expected. Quit this. The last thread was moderated. Let's not keep derailing.
Zammo25 Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Quit this. The last thread was moderated. Let's not keep derailing. Here. Look, You and Zammo both live in the UK. Why don't you guys PM, meet up and cry on each others' shoulders? maybe you're the kind of mutual support you need. But here? You're neither of you getting anywhere..... are you?
geegirl Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Here. Look, You and Zammo both live in the UK. Why don't you guys PM, meet up and cry on each others' shoulders? maybe you're the kind of mutual support you need. But here? You're neither of you getting anywhere..... are you? Zammo, people here are giving Fred advice and there you go shooting off a post about how we are abusing him. You and Fred are of similar thinking. Victim Mode. I don't blame Tara for saying that because you are perpetuating Fred's behavior by your post and your own unresolved emotions. This is a true case of misery loves company.
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