mammasita Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Met him on a dating site, we've been talking and have plans to meet Friday. He has a son and has full custody. Probably weird, but that in itself is a turn on. Anyway, I'm kinda feeling something. I know its too early to know anything and if I let this feeling get out of hand, I'll end up being disappointed...... BUT the point is, I can't help but be excited about the fact that I'm excited about someone since my ex.
TouchedByViolet Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Congrats on getting a date and enjoy the experience. Being excited is a great feeling and just go with the flow.
Casablanca Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 Nothing wrong about being excited for a date. If dating isn't exciting then you will have no fun in it. Sure you're likely to have misses and bad dates and bad matches, but it is always good to be excited because you never know who will be the one.
Ruby Slippers Posted February 20, 2013 Posted February 20, 2013 I also have a date Friday, and I'm also excited. Just have fun! No pressure. Dating is supposed to be FUN.
Author mammasita Posted February 23, 2013 Author Posted February 23, 2013 I had a really good time. He looks like his pictures and can hold a conversation, an intelligent conversation. We're meeting up tomorrow for some bowling @RS how was your date? 2
Ruby Slippers Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 I had a really good time. He looks like his pictures and can hold a conversation, an intelligent conversation. We're meeting up tomorrow for some bowling Good!! @RS how was your date? It was great. But I can already tell he really likes me, and I'm just not really feeling it for him. Sucks.
Casablanca Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 It was great. But I can already tell he really likes me, and I'm just not really feeling it for him. Sucks. So it wasn't that great if you're not feeling it? I mean I guess you can still have fun with someone on a date if you're not interested, but that always kind of killed how well I would rate a date if I wasn't that interested in them.
IndianGuy87 Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 I don't know why you're being nervous because a guy who you're really into is willing to go out with you. The ball is on your court since you're a woman so he's the one who should and is definitely really nervous since he's a guy. He's just probably wondering what ways he can impress you on his date Friday with you.
Ruby Slippers Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 So it wasn't that great if you're not feeling it? I mean I guess you can still have fun with someone on a date if you're not interested, but that always kind of killed how well I would rate a date if I wasn't that interested in them. It was a great date, and I had a really good time. But he's making it clear he's into me, and I'm just not there yet. So that makes me feel cautious about continuing, because I don't want to hurt him if I'm not feeling it. I feel like I've always had this overdeveloped conscience, and that makes these things a bit tricky for me.
Shaun-Dro Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 Met him on a dating site, we've been talking and have plans to meet Friday. He has a son and has full custody. Probably weird, but that in itself is a turn on. Anyway, I'm kinda feeling something. I know its too early to know anything and if I let this feeling get out of hand, I'll end up being disappointed...... BUT the point is, I can't help but be excited about the fact that I'm excited about someone since my ex. You're seriously in for a rude awakening.
Casablanca Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 It was a great date, and I had a really good time. But he's making it clear he's into me, and I'm just not there yet. So that makes me feel cautious about continuing, because I don't want to hurt him if I'm not feeling it. I feel like I've always had this overdeveloped conscience, and that makes these things a bit tricky for me. So you're still interested? Just try and slow it down and see how it goes, go for a few more dates and see how it goes...good luck
Author mammasita Posted February 23, 2013 Author Posted February 23, 2013 You're seriously in for a rude awakening. And why is that?
Author mammasita Posted February 23, 2013 Author Posted February 23, 2013 It was a great date, and I had a really good time. But he's making it clear he's into me, and I'm just not there yet. So that makes me feel cautious about continuing, because I don't want to hurt him if I'm not feeling it. I feel like I've always had this overdeveloped conscience, and that makes these things a bit tricky for me. I know what you mean. I met a guy a few weeks ago that I didn't feel anything for. I was truthful with him and he insists on being friends with me. Glad you had fun
Shaun-Dro Posted February 23, 2013 Posted February 23, 2013 I know what you mean. I met a guy a few weeks ago that I didn't feel anything for. I was truthful with him and he insists on being friends with me. I'm sure you know why, right?
Author mammasita Posted February 24, 2013 Author Posted February 24, 2013 I'm sure you know why, right? Because I friend zoned the first guy I met? I'm honestly lost....lol
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